boyfriend broke up with me when i told him im pregnant

edited January 2011 in Pregnant
I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year he has a son already...im almost 25 he's 22...I told him I was prego he said he doesent want two kids at 22...this is my first pregnancy...we were all good before but he broke up with me 2weeks ago...I have been stressed...im only 8weeks...

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  • Fuckk him =] he's not worth it then make sure stay strong for your lil one and you never know he might change his mind once he gets 2 see or hear your babies heart beat
  • Yes ur right thanks...im just gonna be strong for the baby....some people said he may come around and give him time...I will se...either way ima enjoy my pregnancy... :)
  • That's all you can do if u don't and you stress it too much you could harm the baby
  • Same name as you & ironically same situation as you. Fortunately, my baby is healthy and I'm 37 weeks. So pray about it and don't let him see you stress. I don't call my child's father. I will know more when the baby comes or else he'll know child support if he doesn't start acting like a man.
  • I agree on chikdbsupport.
  • Sorry guys. I meant child support and yes forget him. Just be the best for your baby. No women ever needs a boy in their life if they aint man enough to be a father.
  • Just make sure u dont get stressed out
  • If he could have sex with you then he was aware he could have a second child. I really don't know if id want him to come around. He doesn't seem very responsible. And you don't want a wishy washy man in and out if your childs life.
  • I have raised my 5 year old basically alone until I got married in july. I don't get child support or anything. Best thing that's ever happened to me. Most men are douchebags. Luckily I found me a keeper this time!
  • hm. if he already had one child but didnt want 2 at 22 then he should of thought of that b4 havin sex. I mean nothin is 100% effective except for abstinence. he might come around. but is he even worth it. sorry I just feel strongly against men walkin out on their kids
  • What an ass. I'm 23 and pregnant with my third. That pisses me off. It's like an insult. He is a child and you're way better off without him!
  • Thanks to u all for all your words...and @ brittneyiscute....sorry that u going thru that...you are so right to just pray about it....things will be better for us both brittney....And im Not going to stress I want to have a healthy baby that's my main focus. And ur right I think I may be better wihout him!
  • I have a cousin that does this... shame:( He has four children this way from 4 mothers. The reason I say this is cause dispite my cousins asshole behaviors, one of the women kept in contact with his mom and sister. They all know the situation and have a great supportive relationship, minus the dad. Maybe this could work for you:)
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