does any one else at the thought of someone tpuching their baby?

jellybelly1015jellybelly1015
edited September 2011 in Pregnant
Because I just want to vomit at the thought of my mil holding her let alone kissing her. Am I nuts and how do i get over this in two weeks before my baby gets here? I want to punch her, but not in real life. :(

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  • loveourlittleoneloveourlittleone
    At first I though you said "punching"!
    But, yes I do. There are a few people I'd prefer not to hold my baby.
  • one5oneone5one
    I know that feeling! I had a nieghbor who's plain nasty filthy! She's got no clue I'm pregs. So thank God she moved outa the area. Otherwise her & her smelly unwashed kids would stink.my home up & contaminate baby. Yuck!
  • bigmamakbigmamak
    I cringe when smokers want to hold my baby even after washing and sanitizing their hands cause its still in their clothes. This is my 4th and I am already hating the thought
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  • babiescomin2011babiescomin2011
    I don't really want anyone on my husbands side touching my son LOL terrible I know.. but they are not the cleanest people,I never see any of them wash there hands and a few of them have some diseases that u can't get rid of ;/ I've decided I'm carrying around hand sanitizer and I don't care who u are,if u want to touch my son take a squirt or two!!!
  • VictoriaBVictoriaB
    There are some people who I don't even want looking at my baby. Ever.
  • babiescomin2011babiescomin2011
    @amab13 yes its sad..and they don't really try to be cleaner and protect themselves and others
  • jellybelly1015jellybelly1015
    OMG @sophiasmom11 I want to respond to everyone and will, but I totally would punch anyone who licked my baby. Ew effing ew. Seriously gonna have nightmares about that one... *shudders* my mil likes to carry around babies under her ARM like a freaking pile of crap. I've seen so many near misses for Sharp counter corners (she is short so too Like seriously near misses) and she says thing like "You're my little buttcheeks I just want to eat you up!" But I've never seen her lick anyone... I think I might have yelled out "what are you doing??? What is wrong with you????" Wow... I'm seriously glad I am not the only one with effed up mil!!!
  • jellybelly1015jellybelly1015
    BTW, not that I wish it on Anyone!!!
  • lae3lae3
    Hate it.. I bf my babys and that makes it hard.. Smokers r grose.. Strangers r a big nono!!! My mil used to smoke but my hisband made fun of her n told her he disnt want her to hold ours.. wen out in public I keep mine covered either with a blanket while holding them.. Or while in their carrier.. And vlanket over that!
  • marie0907marie0907
    I feel bad even saying this, but I don't want my own dad to hold her. He is a chain smoker, yellow fingers and all. He's also not a hand washer so he just seems dirty to mw. Good things he doesn't live close to me so I won't have to deal with it often.
  • rckprincess2rckprincess2
    My baby will be a wk old tomorrow and I cringe at the thought. I make everyone wash their hands and sanitize because most of them are smokers....Ugh it's so disgusting.
  • usafwife_21usafwife_21
    I think for the first two weeks the babies going to be mine and mine alone. I'm not sharing! Its going to be so hard for me.... I dont want anyone to drop him or anything... EEEEEEK. But there are a few people I ESPECIALLY dont want to hold the baby :)
  • ashesashes
    This is bad but one of my best friends I will NOT trust holding my baby. He's training for mma fighting... doesn't know his own strength and has no care really for small things. We took my dogs for a walk once and he was dragging my mom's dog because she wouldn't walk fast enough. He was choking her and calling her a bitch and yelling at her to get moving..... I think he might be taking enhancements at this point :/ and I went and saw him a week ago, we walked to the theater by his work, I'm 37 weeks I asked him to walk slow...he laughed and said "what, you can't keep up with this?" Then walked off all fast! Grrrrrr
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