my boyfriend!

ashesashes
edited September 2011 in VENT (keep it peaceful!)
Is in for such a rude awakening! I'm 38 weeks.... worked a full shift yesterday, then we had stuff to do & didn't get to sleep until around 3/4am, then I wake up at 7:30 starving and tell him lets go get food, (we slept at our new house that doesnt hqve any food yet) and now he's all pissy at me saying wah wah wah he's tired only 3 hrs of sleep etc. &he had the day off!! Ugh!!!!
I can already tell I'm going to be just like my mom & hate my life like every day because he's going to make me do EVERYTHING.... I'm on a baby mode already & he's still in 21-yr-old mode...

Ok vent over :) thanks for reading :/

Comments

  • justkirareneejustkirarenee
    Good luck hun! Let's just hope when your little one arrives, he wakes up and realizes he needs to help. :-D
  • ashesashes
    @oregonmama I wish we still had the "like" button!
    @justkirarenee I know! Everyone keeps telling me he needs to wake up and realize but why tell me?? I can't do anything, people need to tell him
  • ashesashes
    Constantly calling me a bitch.... saying I'm heartless.... just said "fuck you" to me. All because he is too cheap to pay the tip for breakfast and i made a comment about whenever i pay for dinner he never tips. What a great morning. I seriously feel used and gross. I work so hard and struggle with my bills & he boasts about having so much money saved, enough for a car and a dog and supposedly to support us. I am on the verge of crying and now I have a headache. I had a date planned and paid for this week and don't even want to go now. All I am here for is to pop this baby out so he has a plaything.
  • BentleysMommyBentleysMommy
    edited September 2011
    Why are you still with him? It seems like he always disrespects you, is rude to you, and acts like you're the only one that needs to be an adult. My bf and I have problems too. But if he ever talked to me or treated me the way you say he treats you, I would let him go in a heart beat. You don't need your child to grow up thinking it's okay for a relationship to be like that, imo.
  • marabelmarabel
    I agree with @BentleysMommy why are you with him you and your baby deserve better and if he treats this way when your pregnant imagine later girl:?
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  • loveourlittleoneloveourlittleone
    edited September 2011
    You need to set him straighten up real quick. From what I remember you posting before, he is an ass (and sounds a lot like my bf). Shape up or ship the fuck out. Simple as that.
  • BentleysMommyBentleysMommy
    @loveourlittleone Amen!
  • ceegsmommy75ceegsmommy75
    Sounds like he's still an ass and you are still letting him be one :(
  • RizzyChickyRizzyChicky
    Omg I'm so sorry hun. U so deserve better than that! @BentleysMommy is totally right. WHY are u still with him! It seems u can totally make it w/o him. My BF wouldn't dare call me a bitch. He won't even call me "chubby" lol. If he did call me a bitch though, it's so on. I can be the biggest bitch just like I was to my low-life, disrespectful exes!
  • BentleysMommyBentleysMommy
    @RizzyChicky lol, I've told my boyfriend he should never call me a Bitch, because if he ever did, I would show him what a Bitch really is. Needless to say, he's never called me a Bitch >:)
  • RizzyChickyRizzyChicky
    @BentleysMommy Hahaha right!? A guy should be smart about it anyway. U want a happy relationship? Then don't be rude & make ur GF/wife happy! A happy GF/wife is waaay better to have around than a miserable, bitchy 1! ;-)
  • namelessnameless
    edited September 2011
    I agree w/ @BentleysMommy too..
    Maybe if you live him..he'll change his ways..or not and you'll be happy you did!
  • BentleysMommyBentleysMommy
    @RizzyChicky at our babyshower, we did advice cards where each guest gave us a piece of advice and someone wrote "Always keep Mommy happy because if Mommy isn't happy, ain't nobody happy!" I was like OMG best advice ever! Lol.
  • VictoriaBVictoriaB
    :O I have to agree with bentleysmommy. That's not ok. If he wants a plaything, he can get a dog. If he wants to be a dad, he better start acting like it and treating you right.
  • RizzyChickyRizzyChicky
    @BentleysMommy ROFL! That's funny & so true! We had advice cards at ours too hahaaha & a friend of mine wrote "Remember: Mommy is ALWAYS right."
  • BentleysMommyBentleysMommy
    @RizzyChicky oh of course, that's true too >:)
  • ashesashes
    Idk why I'm still with him. I've always wanted to be with him now I am and I hate it. Grass is always greener I guess.
    He talks so down to me especially when we fight that I'm embarrassed to be with him. He doesn't see what I see about things he does or says then turns around and expects me to move in and start a life with him.

    Tonight he seriously made me feel like shit. When do I get a break? He was falling asleep and when I asked if he was he cussed at me yes. Mind you I have no quality sleep anymore... I ask him to get his sisters dog out of the room b/c it snores and he replies "great, I was fkcing sleeping but now I'm wide awake." I spit back "well must be nice." His reply, "like you fking care about my sleep" no, I don't care, probably because you have never cared about my rest. He will call me back to back until I wake up from a dead sleep. So what do I do?
    Walk home. Sad, he let his 9month pregnant girlfriend walk home at 1am ...

    I'm sorry I vent so much about him. I can't tell my parents about any of this and I have no friends anymore. I just wish he'd see how much of an asshole he is and wake up. No.....instead he says I'm the bitch
  • stacyraestacyrae
    edited September 2011
    @ashes you have SUCH an incredible amount of patience to stay with a guy like that! I've read some of your other vents before and honestly I don't know how you do it. I don't post often, but really I get so mad for you. You obviously deserve a real man who knows how to treat a woman! What kind of man doesn't care about his pregnant girlfriend walking home at such a late hour! That is true selfishness, and there is no excuse for it! This guy needs a real wake up call. He's got no business raising a child when he can't grow up himself.
  • blueberrysmomblueberrysmom
    edited September 2011
    He would have to go. There is no way on earth a man should treat you that way. Why tolerate it?
  • namelessnameless
    I would try the hardest to leave...he sounds like crap..careless crap-
    He should not be cussing at you
    He should not allow you walking around times like that.
    He needs to have respect for you..all hes gonna do is show your son that its ok to be treated like that and its ok to cuss..and whatnot..
    sucks that you really wanted to be w/him and his such a jerk..I know its easier said then done but you should leave him..I know your strong enough for your son and you and that you can do it.
  • JesseDenverJesseDenver
    Wow..that is just awful. He treats you like crap and I am angry for you! He needs a wake up call and got to show more respect for you. I know it's even harder because you are 9 months pregnant but if his shitty attitude doesn't change after the baby comes. ..Then you really need to leave him until he changes his rude behavior towards you. That is not healthy.
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