if you already had your baby
....who came to see you/baby in the hospital?
I don't feel like I want anyone except people who are/have been really close to me. Like people that won't even answer daily text or phone calls are saying they want to come see me and baby in hospital. I'm thinking, if you don't want to answer or hang out before the baby, why should I let you come to the hospital? I feel like they can wait a couple weeks.
Bf thinks otherwise. He thinks they should all come to the hospital because that's what they do after a baby. I'm thinking....I've waited 9 months for this boy, feeling him kick and turn and get hiccups and I've changed my diet, lifestyle, finances and dealt with pains, sleeplessness, etc....I want to spend alllllll the first moments with him
I don't feel like I want anyone except people who are/have been really close to me. Like people that won't even answer daily text or phone calls are saying they want to come see me and baby in hospital. I'm thinking, if you don't want to answer or hang out before the baby, why should I let you come to the hospital? I feel like they can wait a couple weeks.
Bf thinks otherwise. He thinks they should all come to the hospital because that's what they do after a baby. I'm thinking....I've waited 9 months for this boy, feeling him kick and turn and get hiccups and I've changed my diet, lifestyle, finances and dealt with pains, sleeplessness, etc....I want to spend alllllll the first moments with him
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my sister and my hubby were there the whole time..then
my mom, dad, gma&gpa on dads side, gma&gpa on moms side, my aunt and two cousins, his mom, dad, brother, two sisters, his gma on his dads side, his gma&gpa on his moms side all the day Levi was born. i had an emergency c-sec and they ALL got to see him b4 me
b4 i left the hospital, three good friends, three more sets of aunts and uncles some guys my hubby works with and a preacher all got to see me in all my glory!
i was induced eary for high blood pressure...u think ppl would get a hint...and baby was in the nicu for three days then everyone was griping that they hadnt got to "hold him"
anyway ya it can totally suck! i wish i would have put my foot down sometimes..but then i think..i was so drugged it didnt matter at the time so why make an ass of myslef! haha!
but family except rude aunt and snoby daughter i don't want around
Blah, anyway...
My dad, my oldest brother and his wife, both of my aunts , my cousin and his wife, and my grandpa.
His dad came, his uncle, aunt, both cousins, and one of his cousins husbands.
My best friend came too, and one of my other close friends.
We finally made this plan and we are hoping to stick to it.. Just hubby & I are going to be in the delivery room. Everyone else is going to be in the waiting room.. we are going to take 2 hours to ourselves after the baby is born (just me, hubby, and baby).. then bring in my parents and his parents for a little bit.. then my brothers and his sister.. then my grandparents and his grandparents. That way my husband and I get time with her before we have to share.. and then each set we bring in gets time with her before bringing in more people. If anyone else shows up, I'm going to ask the nurses to tell them to come back at a later time.