I broke up with my baby daddy and I don't feel sad or anything about it. I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders and I could careless if we get back together.
@Mommy_2_B I just got tired of always arguing about the same stuff all the time & I was tired of having to be the man and woman in the relationship. Plus I don't trust him so there was no point in trying anymore. I still want him to be there for the baby but as far as me and him, we are done. I think Mr. Right will come when the time is right.
Im feeling the same way towards my babydaddy..i admit i love him, but im 30 wks. Prego and i don't think its still hit him that he's going to be a dad. He cheats on me all the time but when i confront him he denies to the end that he never did. Im just so fed up with the lying and cheating, i rather be on my own and just look.forward to having my baby boy. I can't change a man to grow up and be faithful, and like you I don't mind having him in my babys life but as far as in my life..im moving on.
@JasiahsMommy that's exactly how I feel. I'm tired of stressing myself out about what he is doing even though I have never caught him I just have a gut feeling that he isn't doing right by me so I just called it a quits b4 things got any worse. But I don't have anything to say to him unless it's about the baby
Yeah its like when you get that funny feeling you know something isn't right..i've been feeling that with my bd for the longest. But what's funny about him is that he says he loves me and wants to get married and live together when the baby is born. I guess he sees my pregnancy as a time let loose and snap back to reality when The baby is born...i hate it. How can someone who is supposed to be your biggest support and person to lean on be such an ass! Im about to have his son and he's out going and having sex with other people. Im so done! Just wait til i have my body back lol and i can be single and find a new man but he is in love with his unborn son. He just can't wait to be a dad.
Omg! That sounds just like my baby daddy and I can't wait to get my body back either bc that's when he is gonna want to come back around and I will be gone for good. I just don't understand how he can treat me the way he does and look me in my face and lie. It really hurts bc its not just me and him anymore, he has a baby girl that will be here in 3 weeks and I just thought he would try to do any and everything to make us hapoy but I guess not.
Just wait til the baby comes and see how he reacts....he might look at you and feel like he needs to man up. But then again it could be the same crap...Im not looking forward to a changed man when my son is born but I do know he will want to be a family and Im not settling for someone who couldn't even be down and happy with me while I was pregnant! So once you have your baby just get your little body back and return to your normal self and I bet you, you will be the one dealing the cards lol
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Good luck!
Thanks @babyboyontheway