sex drama
finding out the sex of my twins drama that is. I don't want to know, I didn't want to find out w/ my last child but it caused drama. Everyone wanted to know and some accused me of knowing but not telling. so when it came out that i was pregnant again my mil said she had to know bc she wasn't going to go through waiting again. this subject irks my nerves beyond unwanted tummy rubbing. i don't understand why ppl think THEIR experience during MY pregnancy is most important thing at this time. My husbands family seems to think they know me or that I'm like every other person in their family and i'm not. I can't really voice my opinions much because these ppl are so hell bent on getting their way any opposition is seen as disrespect and rudeness. last time I checked I only married one person and i'm only riding one man so why should ANYONE else think they have any kind of rights to my body and my kids. I'm not going to find out what i'm having but i may let the family find out the only problem is i have no doubt his family will end up letting it "accidently slip" around me. I had this issue last time and i didn't let anyone know but my husband and it almost broke up our marriage just based on the drama his family caused. I don't want to go through that again bc i'm already catching hell for being pregnant again. I know if someone were to act out like they did last time or tried to tell me what i'm having i'll flip. I may swing on them and not care about the fallout that will come. I don't need this stress and my ultrasound is this coming thursday.
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I'd just tell them that yuu couldnt find out cause of the positions they we're in.