Since when was it okay to stress about a women whos 7 months pregnant?!?!?!

usafwife_21usafwife_21
edited October 2011 in VENT (keep it peaceful!)
Ugh its still this stupid family drama! But now all the other family is getting into it and telling me I'm wrong and I'm a bad person and blah blah. I mean I called my mom a b*tch... which I apologized for that day. I've never ever called her anything mean.. But she said I forgot the my grandpa is dying and stuff... So I flipped out... I mean she has anger problems! Ugh sorry for venting!

Anyway! I thought people were supposed to be nice and stuff to pregnant women?! Like no stress, help them out, make things easy... I mean hello, I have a little baby inside me who does not want to come out yet! He was 3 more months of growing to do!!! I mean I want to enjoy my pregnancy! Not be stressed out the whole time! Anyone else have people treating them like crap?! I mean I was treated nicer when I wasnt pregnant... Now all of the sudden I'm satan... And trust me, I know hormones make things worse, but this really isnt me... I swear!

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  • AllyAndEmeryAllyAndEmery
    Girl i feel you, I had to move back in with my parents for a little while and my mother is making it a living hell... im over 9 months pregnant constantly in pain and she bitches and stresses me out about the stupidest Smallest things Ever, and carries on about it for days! today she had the nerve to go all out literately screaming from the top of her lungs at me from 2 feet away cuz someone turned the dial on the fridge to cold and a head of lettuce that was at the back of the fridge froze (dear god help us all we can not carry on with out a head of friggen lettuce!!!) but because i just moved in it had to be me that turned the dial, when in fact i dont even know were the dial to make the fridge colder is! Also!!!! she leaves a tone of dishes in the sink every day then goes to work, and i am nice enough to do them every singe damn day cuz im here any ways and dirty dishes in the sink bother me. So a few nights ago i was in a lot of pain so i put a bowl in the sink and decided to leave it there till morning. Well when i got up my mother was is the kitchen doing what ever and was surprisingly washing her plate she had used, so i thought hmm ill make a little experiment and see if she dose my dish as well. So i went to take a shower and she had left for work while i was getting dressed. I went back down stairs to check to see if she had washed my one measly bowl, and to my non surprise... she hadn't, shed done her dish and left mine in the sink after i do hers everyday! i mean this lady wouldn't have a dish to eat off of if i dident wash them all while she was out! and she has the nerve to leave my one bowl!!

    Im on bed rest and im the one cleaning up after her ass, and i also hand her hundreds of dollars a month for rent!!

    Sorry for my miny vent, but i know what ur goin threw!
  • usafwife_21usafwife_21
    @CntWaitFrMyLilSweets My family is like that to! They dont know how to just drop stuff and its so aggravating! Ugh I would be so mad about that stuff as well! Its really the little things that are aggravating! Honestly, the fact that you have to pay rent... I would be mad about that lol I mean you pick up after yourself and everything.... Just my opinion! :) People need to be nicer to pregnant women... I mean obviously dont let us walk all over you... but definitely dont think its okay to walk all over us!!!!
  • AllyAndEmeryAllyAndEmery
    True enough! i mean my goodness, i do all this stuff for her and i pay her money and i dont ever get a thank you for doing any of it! and its not like its easy for me to do it all. Its so not ok to go and scream at a preggers, or say hurtful things like your mom did to you about your grandfather (im so sorry about btw) like thats low. It gets hard enough on you emotionally buy the ending months of pregnancy we don't need more thrown at us. Good Luck in everything, If you ever need to talk or vent to me im here and ill listen, you can add me of facebook if you like its Eliesha George (like the monkey curious george hehe)
  • usafwife_21usafwife_21
    edited October 2011
    Haha thank you! :D I hope everything gets better for you to lol I'm always on here so if you need to vent as well just message me!! @CntWaitFrMyLilSweets
  • AllyAndEmeryAllyAndEmery
    Thanx :)
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