My due date is dec 31. And thats kinda what it feels like when i sit up. Like she's being squashed. Lol. Sometimes she will hit me til i lay back and then i will get a contraction. Its weird. And then sometimes im just fine sitting up with mild discomfort. @jules.
@angel26 ya same here I usually lay down and get ice so she moves her legs. But I'm not on bed rest they just told me to take it easy and when the bh start to drink water super fast and lay down with my feet up. And my due date is Dec 15th. Why did they put u on bed rest?
@angel26 like physically and mentally I think I can make it until like anytime in the first week of Dec but with everything that's going on I feel like there is no way the baby can lol. Just cause of all of this thats going on and plus work and I'm taking an online class thats fast track which is stressful and like the whole baby shower thing is stressing me out cause the friend that's throwing it for me decided to wait until yesterday to send out the invites and the shower is next sunday the 30th I just feel like people are not given enough notice. What about u how far do u think u can make it?
@jules i think some time between the first couple weeks of December. My mom says end of Nov. But i bet sense i am guessing she will get stubborn and stay til get induced. Lol.
@angel26 that's what I keep thinking I, mean I want her to be healthy but at the same time I don't mind having her a little early I hope they can check me soon to see if I have any progress at all...
@jules ya. I actually hope she comes on her own a little early. I want her to be healthy but i am scheduling an induction before my due date. I know they cant do it to early. But im so miserable that i am ready to have my little trouble maker. Lol. I am more than willing to stay miserable til December (safe zone) lol. But would definitely be happy if she wants to come then. Dont get me wrong, i love feeling her, but i want to cry cuz of the pain. I was checked in l&d and there's no change. Which is ok cuz she needs to bake a little longer. Lol.
Well i don't think she will be passed her sure date since they have already had to stop labor and what started it was my dance class cause im a dancer for a ballet company and still taking classes so its easier to go back ya know. So if one they start checking me I'm not making progress I'll just goo take that class again. Hehe what about u?
Lol. Sounds like a good plan. Just walking and standing causes some pretty uncomfortable and painful contractions. So i will start walking a lot more lol. @jules
Good call I'm gonna wait like two more weeks then get it all going cause I'm sure it will take few weeks. But the fact that we know we can get.something going in pretty good got kinda lucky there. @angel26
Im not sure when this dr does either. Lol. My sis goes to this dr and told me he check first at the appointment just before the weekly appointments start. Lol. So im going to guess around 36 weeks. I also have an appointment next week on the 27th but i will be almost 31 weeks. Lol. @jules
Well I'm just gonna tell her that I still have the bh and cramping so maybe that will make her check cause I don't even know how big she is which would be a good thing to know cause my apt on the 27 I'm pretty much 33 weeks.plus u would think they would pay closer attention since we were just in l&d ya know. @angel26
Oh ya like crazy. Its the worst in the morning I have to like take it slow at first. I think thats because shes already head down. What u think. @angel26
@jules what would you do? Im having mild chest pain and little tough to breathe. My back and hips hurt a lot. And i have some pain/pressure while sitting down. And when i stand theirs a lot more pressure. I can't walk or move very fast. I am having some uncomfortable contractions but like always they aren't regular. I don't know what to do. I can't call my dr cuz they closed. And dont really want to go back to l&d. Cuz they said to come back if baby isnt moving or if contractions are regular. But i dont know how much more i can handle.
well I just looked it up sure you and sadly all of those are totally normal I have all of that but its not as bad as yours do sadly they won't do anything for you in l&d so just take some pain meds on your own. And see how that works my man is, in the, medical field and as soon as his home I'll ask him more about wish u lived near me cause I have stuff at home u should take without having to go in cause I know at l&d they r gonna say its okay take it easy only after song doing tests and being there for hours. Lately I been drinking a lot of lemon water and lay on my left side it helps a lot. And use heat and ice to relax the muscles around the hips. @angel26
Ya that would be nice. Outside of being uncomfortable I'm just confused and wish someone would just tell me what to do cause I feel like I'm at the snag off my rope with the relationship with my bf it really sucks I just want to move out sometimes. super stressed sorry. On another note do you think your doing things that may be making u more uncomfortable? @angel26
Im sorry you are so stressed. I totally understand the wanting to move out at times. I am married and still feel that way sometimes. I don't know of anything im doing that should make it any worse. I try to relax as much as possible. And when i am up im just walking and stuff. So ya, im not sure what would make it worse. @jules
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Do you think you will make it to dec 15?
Just walking and standing causes some pretty uncomfortable and painful contractions. So i will start walking a lot more lol. @jules
I don't know of anything im doing that should make it any worse. I try to relax as much as possible. And when i am up im just walking and stuff. So ya, im not sure what would make it worse.
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