I hate this feeling.

McKinleesMamaMcKinleesMama
edited October 2011 in VENT (keep it peaceful!)
I feel like im the worst mom ever. my baby girl is 7 weeks old and i swear she hates me. and im so scared of something being wrong with her and i dont know what it is or how to help her and she dies. im constantly checking on her to see if shes still breathing. i understand that if god has other plans for her soul than its her destany but i would be devastated. i just dont know what to do to put my mind more at ease and let me stop worrying so much.

Comments

  • ProudmommaProudmomma
    That doesn't make you a bad mother what so ever. I'm the same way. I'm always checking on my baby. You aren't the only one
  • NewMomInSeptNewMomInSept
    I feel.like this too... Among other things... I worry she hates me also. Like she sees how terrible of a mother I am...
  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    I felt that way at first. Still do sometimes. But that lil girl is gonna think the sun shines from your bottom!!
  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    Ps I like your daughters name. My girl is McKinley. :x
  • McKinleesMamaMcKinleesMama
    @Proudmomma i guess the guilt comes in when shes crying and i cant seem to figure out whats wrong with her, i immediately jump to there is something wrong with her and i feel bad for not being able to fix it.

    @NewMomInSept i hope she doesnt hate me, i just wish she could just tell me whats wrong.

    @natashalynn thank you for your support.
  • ProudmommaProudmomma
    That's natural. But babies cry sometimes they don't even realize it. Just hold her and comfort her. We all go through it. She doesn't hate you. You are the most important person in her life
  • McKinleesMamaMcKinleesMama
    thank you @Proudmomma
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