boyfriend wants me to quit bfing

:( Brody has been gassy (more so last weekend ) but still farts he doesn't seem to be in any pain at all but Brandon said its gotta be because I am breast-feeding and that his farting is not good for him and he should be switched to formula. I don't want to fight with him but I don't want to switch Brody either. How can I get him to understand breast milk is the best for him. He is working now so I can't bring him to brodys next appointment to talk to the Dr. Any ideas? I'm frustrated and hurt. At first he thought he wasn't getting fed because when I pump I only get about an oz so that was a fight until at his apt to get circumcised he gained 10 oz in less than a week now he knows brody is getting enough to eat. And brody seemed to be gassiest when I ate onions so I've quit eating those and he only farts a few times a day now which I think is normal. Sorry so long.
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  • Tell him to be thankful its just gas and not crazy explosive smelly poops. Or that you'll switch if he deals with every dirty diaper lol
    Just find stuff online about bfing and its benefits, there's lots there.
    But you're the mama. It's YOUR decision.
  • If I was in ur situation I would just ask my bf how many times he farts during the day and if the number raises or lowers by what he eats.
  • As long as he isnt in pain then the few farts a day is normal...lol ask your boyfriend if the farts HE passes each day are normal for him lol?

    As for telling him that breastmilk is better than formula....formula is artificially manufactured and your body produces milk just for your baby! Dont let him talk you into switching! If that means an arguement then so be it! Your baby is worth it!! Your doing a great job keep up the good work!
  • I know that he is being a concerned new parent and he said last night when he was holding him that he farted 40 times. Ok that is a lot if he farted that much but he did have a very poopy diaper when I changed him after.
    @natashalynn he hasn't changed one poopy diaper and brody is 12 days old. He tried 2 times but once it was explosive and I thought it was better if I did it the 2nd he tried then brody kept pooping and Brandon started gagging lol.
    I'm going to Google some information and maybe the Dr will have stuff when I take him for his 2 week check up.
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  • Do the math and tell him you're saving st least $140 a month if not more, good luck!
  • Does he know formula gas & poop is nasty smelling?
  • He was formula fed and thinks brody should too. He made a comment the other day about how I'm no fun anymore I won't even have a beer. Maybe he is feeling neglected? Maybe I should try to pump more so he can feed him?
  • You're the mama and what you say goes!! Ask your bf what they did for gassy babies before formula was invented. They surely didn't stop breastfeeding and let them starve!! Lol
  • He farted 40x because he was pooping lol. Gas is just going to happen. Tell him your milk isn't hurting him and you know he is concerned. Where did he get the notion that your milk is the corporate? Give bf some formula then express some milk in a cup and ask him which one he rather drink?
  • @starrxoxo9 that's true lol. I tried getting gas drops from walmart but they didn't have any for his size pharmacist said we have to get a prescription.
  • @queennique that's a good idea lol
  • I think ppl go too nuts over babies having gas. We all get gas, but as adults we don't fuss or cry because we know what's going on. Babies have no clue what's happening to their bodies so they cry from being uncomfortable. But its not like farting causes severe distress lol. If I was you I would just keep doing what you're doing. He's gaining weight which is most important.
  • That's so true. I'm sure he is fine I just need to prove it to my boyfriend lol.
  • :) good luck hun! My daughter just ripped a hole in her diaper as I was typing this lol ;)
  • Lol. I'm just going to let him know I'm not stopping he is perfectly fine. Babies fart its natural lol.
  • Good for you :)
  • @samantha My baby is majorly breastfed with formula at night. He's soooooo gassy and even the days he only gets 1 formula bottle he's still JUST as gassy. Babies are gassy little things sometimes. My pedi said you shouldn't use gas drops til they're 3 months old. Try some chamomile tea 1 oz in 1 oz of breastmilk to relieve it. Breastmilk is best, although formula isn't a bad thing either. So if YOU choose to stop bf-ing (it should be YOUR choice, not your boyfriend's) don't feel guilty.
  • yea its normal for babys to have gas my neice cryed the first time she farted bc she didnt know what was going on lol it was cute but not lol it happens bf is so much better and formula could bind up the baby insted of the baby haveing poops now
    constipated babys are no fun and no joke
  • Omg my baby farts so much and so loud last night my fiancee was holding him and he did it and his mum was arguing with him that it was him that did it not baby haha :/ is it bad for babies?
  • Wait that sounds wrong. I'm saying he's gassy with formula too. Ha :-)
  • You ladies are so awesome and make me feel better. Thank you. I wish he knew how many other babies are just as gassy of not more.
  • My husband was constantly bringing up supplementing with formula. When i would argue about how bf is better, he would say i was a formula baby & so were all my brothers & sisters. I think he was defensive becuz his mom never tried to bf and felt i was indirectly putting her down. I did break down & will occasionally give my baby formula, but his theory that she would sleep better was shot down. I only give her formula once in awhile & he dropped the subject
  • I'm strictly formula feeding and my baby is still gassy.
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  • @ashleyfew I was thinking that too. He made a comment about how I won't even have a beer now and I always have a baby on my hip. I think he is lacking some man attention lol. I'm going to pump more so he can feed baby too.
  • Adrian out farts both me and his dad! Lol totally normal, gas is just a part of.life xD but formula will make it worse for sure lol
  • Haha my little one used to fart so much for the frst 3 months!! Breadt milk is the best thing for,a baby. Ask him if he,wants to smell formula feed baby shit!! Omg it smells so bad. I love bfing!! My little ones poop smells,like butter popcorn!
  • Lol @proudmommy8789 how do you get your lo poop to smell like that brodys still stinks even with boob milk. Lol.
    @sunshinelove I'm standing my ground brody gets boob milk and I'm trying to pump more so Brandon can help and feel more involved. I'm hoping that will help with his anti boob milk lol.
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