Insensitive men

Junebuggbabie85Junebuggbabie85
edited November 2011 in VENT (keep it peaceful!)
I swear men can be so insensitive sometimes. So I don't mind that my bd watches porn to take care of his needs its better than him cheating on me and I haven't been able to satisfy him pretty much this entire pregnancy because sex hurt and I know I'm not attractive to him right now, but usually he does it when I'm not around or after I go to bed but tonight he started watching it on his phone while we were sitting on the couch after dinner. It really hurt my feelings that he would rather watch that then pay attention to me who was right beside him and he kept getting this look on his face so I asked him what he was doing and he just kinda smirked so I got up and looked and it was porn and he was like you made me miss the video ugh. I was really hurt so I just got up and went and did the laundry. And he is so oblivious to the fact that my feelings were hurt even though I wouldn't let him touch me after. :( just needed to vent

Comments

  • Janet_2011Janet_2011
    Ugh that sucks. have you tried talking to him about how you feel? Me and hubby watch porn together sometimes.. I'm ok with it as long as he doesn't watch it behind my back or puts porn first than me
  • Junebuggbabie85Junebuggbabie85
    I told him how I felt and he was like I had just pulled it up when you looked and youre never in the mood so I don't try. Ugh men!
  • Steph_Due_101611Steph_Due_101611
    Guys don't know how you feel unless you tell them.
  • Steph_Due_101611Steph_Due_101611
    But what he did was wrong.
  • Junebuggbabie85Junebuggbabie85
    i cant get it through his head that even though sometimes I'm not in the mood that doesn't mean he shouldn't try because sometimes all it takes is him showing a bit of affection and attraction and I can get I'm the mood but he thinks because I wasn't In the mood five months ago that I'm still not men are dense
  • ProudmommaProudmomma
    That was messed up. Try to seduce him a little and that may change it all. He just may need to know that you are still in the prego body. Some men get weird with pregnancy and don't know how to handle it. I had to seduce my bd when I was prego even though I really wasn't in the mood but I knew it's what he needed to get that connection back with me. If you don't want to do that then just talk to him and lay it straight. Just say flat out porn while you're around is not okay period. It made you feel uncomfortable and hurt.
  • Junebuggbabie85Junebuggbabie85
    I wouldn't mind if he did it around me id he tried me first and then if I wasnt in the mood go for it buddy but damnit I've been horny lately lol and I'm tired of making all the moves
  • ProudmommaProudmomma
    I see well just dress sexy today and let him see the girls lol when you bend over. im sure then he will make his move.
  • Junebuggbabie85Junebuggbabie85
    Lol I wish. I walk around but naked and even sent him some lingerie pics he barely bats an eye. Oh well he's going to be sol soon because I'm having my baby on the 29th :)
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