My heart is broken

tryinghard19tryinghard19
edited November 2011 in Loss
After 2 long years of trying, my husband and I got our bfp. I had to go to the er twice in one day for a lot of pain and bleeding. Our little fishy has swam away from us. IDK what to do anymore. My heart is broken. I don't know what I have done wrong. :'(

Comments

  • momaynotmomaynot
    You didn't do anything wrong and don't give up. When the time is right it will happen. Just remember our timing sucks but God's timing is perfect.
  • tryinghard19tryinghard19
    My tests kept getting darker. And then as soon as I told people about our fishy, the cramping and bleeding started...........i am just so confused.
  • rjr33rjr33
    I'm really sorry for your loss. Don't give up girl! It took us a good 8 months to get a bfp and I miscarried. I have had 3 mc so far. The dr ran extra tests and found out I have a blood clotting disorder which they say is why I mc but can be fixed with the right meds. There are high risk drs out there that know alot! We are now tcc and its scary! Everyone keeps saying when the time is right it will happen. I think it will. Miscarrying is heartbreaking I know! But you will get through it. Good luck!
  • Janet_2011Janet_2011
    I'm so sorry :(
  • mommy2twomommy2two
    I'm sorry about ur lost one...and no u haven't done anything wrong so dont blame yourself and have faith it will happen for u when the time is right...and next time dont tell ppl untill ur at least 12~13 weeks.
  • hodgeslangdonhodgeslangdon
    Ohh hun I am so sorry. I will pray for you to gget a bfp thats sticky very soon. Ive been through one mc and it was very heartbreeaking for me.
  • BabyBubba123111BabyBubba123111
    You did nothing wrong. When the time is right it will happen. I know it may seem, like God is playing a horrible trick on you, he has a plan. Just remember that time heals. Dont lose hope.
  • kayleigh27kayleigh27
    It will happen. im so sorry ur going through this. dont give up hope or faith
  • cmarie324xocmarie324xo
    im sorry for your loss! your not alone and i know it sucks having it happen but when the time is right, you will have your precious baby. Ive had 2 m/c since april and im STILL trying because i cant give up and neither should you! dont EVER think you did something wrong. m/c's are a lot more common than people think. just keep your head up and it will happen. if you ever wanna talk im here!
  • tinka1326tinka1326
    I had a mc December last year. Just remember if you van get pregnant once you can do it again. Your miracle baby is waiting for you, dont give up hope sweetie. If you need anything dont hesitate to contact me
  • mommyof3girlsmommyof3girls
    Sorry to hear. I wish no one ever had to feel this pain. I wish there was something to say to comfort u but i know there's not. Sorry. :( ive been in ur shoes as well and its heartbreaking. I didnt understand. But try very hard to find comfort that jesus is holding ur sweet baby. I really recomend reading the book called Heaven in for real by todd burpo (i think thats the authers name, i might b wrong on the last name) i read this book and it gave me peace i was looking for for like five years. Hugs to u.
  • momofSOONtobe7momofSOONtobe7
    Im so sorry for your loss hun. I had a MC in march and I am now 21 weeks along. Don't give up!! I did and when I thought I couldn't carry any more babies I found out I was expecting again.... with the support from the ladies on here I got through the loss and kept my hopes up. Just realize you have nothing to do with it. Don't question your self God wanted your little one to join all our little ones. He has his reasonings behind everything. It took me time to realize that but I eventually realized he had a reason and I actually figured out the reason. It really made a lot of since as to why he wanted my son more then I needed him here. Just keep your head up hun!!!!! Hugs to you... you will get your little soon I have a feeling!!!
  • MummyForThefirstTimeMummyForThefirstTime
    I am so sorry to hear this hun, i know how you feel, i found out in march this year i was roughly 5-6 weeks pregnant, as i got used to the idea i was going to be a mum and started to tell my family it all changed when i was about 8 weeks i MC. it took me so long to get over it and i was blaming myself for me thinking it was my fault. I think it took me untill june to finally understand that clearly things happen for a reason and it wasnt my time, but i am now 15 weeks pregnant and keep thinking positive..Stay strong your time will come hun xx
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