i havent

newmommyFeb2012newmommyFeb2012
edited December 2011 in Relationships
I haven't seen or heard from my husband for five hours. We got in an argument this morning and I said something I shouldnt have, but I was so upset at the time I thought I meant it. I went in the shower to calm down and started to feel horrible. I got out and found out he was gone, but left his phone here. After two hours of waiting I asked his mom if she has seen him and she claimed she hadn't. Well now its been five and she's asleep so can't text me back. The only places he would go are the store, gym, a drive or his parents. He doesn't have any friends due to being in the army they are all far away right now. I know he wouldn't stay at the gym or store for this long and definitely wouldn't still be driving. It normally only takes him an hour to cool off. I'm so scared of something bad happening to him or me going into labor and not being able to find or get a old of him. I feel like his mom is lying and he fell asleep there, but I have no way to tell because the car he took is our only vehicle. I just don't know what to do. All I've wanted since before I even got out of the shower is to say I'm so sorry and cuddle with him.

Comments

  • ripKaydenceripKaydence
    Call his mom tell her uoi just wanna know if he's safe that's all maybe he went there and passed out if your too worried call the hospitals and police stations. Keep us updated
  • newmommyFeb2012newmommyFeb2012
    Almost eight hours gone and he just called his mom and told her he just got to his uncles house. I don't know how I should feel I mean I know I said something bad, but he left me for eight hours without any hint as to what's going on, didn't tell anyone, didn't have his phone, am almost 34 weeks pregnant he's on holiday block leave for army so will only be here till the third. And he's not even coming home and didn't even call me to tell me he's OK. I don't want to be in this house, but its freezing and I have no vehicle.
  • newmommyFeb2012newmommyFeb2012
    I forgot to tag you sorry. @ripKaydence
  • HALFmyHEARTisATwarHALFmyHEARTisATwar
    Idk what you said but tht doesnt make it ok to leave you there with no car and your pregnant... Why wasnt he worried about you? Tht would piss me off! Guys can b just as dramatic as girls except we think of those things... I bet if you left him without cooking dinner hed throw a fit (im exagerating but u get the point lol)
  • newmommyFeb2012newmommyFeb2012
    Thats what I think about too. I just dont understand, but I know him and if I get mad at him for it then he will just get mad at me and it cause more unnecessary drama. @HALFmyHEARTisATwar
  • TheOneTheOne
    Agreed^ Regardless of what you said you are pregnant and need your hubby to AT LEAST let you know where he is and that he is ok.....it's not good for you to be stressing.....I'm glad you know he's ok now
  • newmommyFeb2012newmommyFeb2012
    @TheOne I know what you mean. I really wish I had a car or someone to come pick me up so when he gets home im not there and then see how he feels. I just dont want to stir anymore fire lol. I am glad to know he is ok too. I just wish he would come home. Being an Army wife is stressfull enough.
  • newmommyFeb2012newmommyFeb2012
    Well @ripKaydence, @TheOne and @HALFmyHEARTisATwar he just pulled into the driveway, so Ill update you later on what he has to say. Thanks guys.
  • TheOneTheOne
    @newmommyfeb2012 I can only imagine how stressful it is hon.....but now you can put your mind at ease a little ;-)
  • TheOneTheOne
    Please do :)
  • HALFmyHEARTisATwarHALFmyHEARTisATwar
    Ok so dont gey mad act super hurt tht he would do this to you... I dont kno ur hubby but mine cant stand the thought of hurting me lol he breaks everytime! However you play it good luck and dnt stress urself into labor!
  • newmommyFeb2012newmommyFeb2012
    Thank you again :-) . I talked to him about everything and he said basically the reason he left and didn't come back wasn't because he didn't want to. He said that he thought I was mad at him, didn't want to be around him and said the things I said really put him down. We both agreed that we wouldn't do this again and that both of us were acting stupid. I told him that he isn't leaving like his dad did, but how is his daughter going to feel when she's old enough to understand if he's leaving like this etc. I think that really got him to realize what he's doing. He never seemed mad but just upset when he came home which means that his story is true. I also told him if he gets mad at me and wants to get out of the house then to go, but to tell me first and let me know he's OK every once in a while and that he can't just up and leave for that long again.
  • newmommyFeb2012newmommyFeb2012
    @HALFmyHEARTisATwar @TheOne
  • TheOneTheOne
    I'm glad all is well :)
  • CristinaLynnCristinaLynn
    I would've been super mean and left to my Moms the whole night without letting anyone know...lol I'm glad it worked out and you two are talking :-)
  • newmommyFeb2012newmommyFeb2012
    @TheOne thank you again :-)
    @CristinaLynn I have a hard time doing that because no matter how mad at him I am I can't stand being away from him. Even though we ended up spending the night apart it kills me when its my fault. Thanks :-) .
  • HALFmyHEARTisATwarHALFmyHEARTisATwar
    Im glad u worked it out! At least this isnt a reacurring issue hopefully it doesnt happen again :)
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