mother in law from hell...

edited March 2011 in Pregnant
From the time I was getting married to my husband my mother in law has put her two sense in on how she feels about me and they are not good thoughts. My husband tells her everything and when we fight me and my husband he runs to her. This has been going on for awhile I got fed up with it and got in her face when I was 8 mons preggo with my daughter and we almost fought. Since my daughter has been born we have been keeping the peace bc of her. BUT the other day I had to tell this b%$#@ where to go.. there was a death in the family on Friday she calls me up meanwhile I am thinking we are going to talk about the passing of a loved one instead this psycho starts with me on me and my husband problems that he has been telling her that has been going on the past few days... since I am preggo with our 2nd baby and my mood is swinging I told her to never call me complaining about my problems with my husband and she has a pair of balls. When someone in our family just passed away... it is none of her fuckn business.. she ended up hanging up on me and never called me back... I am tired of this witch and my husband being a lil boy running to his mom telling her all of our problems... I swear I will ended up telling this bitch where to go again... I am not the one who will be suffering in the end her and my husband will be bc I will make it hell for the both of them until they cut there shit out... anyone else experienceing this?

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  • I hate my inlaws and I'm talking the who family! You are not alone!
  • I hate my inlaws and I'm talking the whole family! You are not alone!
  • I am sooo there, honey! My MIL used to try to get in between my hubby & I's issues all the time, and then she would litterally tell evvvvveryone else... I eventually told him to stop telling her our problems or I was out... it worked; slowly, but surely. He barely tells her anything anymore & we've been married 5 years now. I love him more than ever, but I still can't stand her. She does her best to start drama whenever she can & I just do my best to stand my ground & stay out of it. The worst part is that we live 1/2 a mile apart & she still shows up unanounced at my house constantly even though I've asked her & even TOLD her not to for years! It drives me insane! Ugh... MIL's... can't live with 'em, wouldn't have a hubby w/o 'em... sigh...
  • hun me and my hubby r a secret coz of all the inlaws both sides lol
  • Yes! Hate my mother in law.....I'm just trying to hold out till she kick rocks. Ugh. Told us to "txt her when 'its' born" when we told her she will be a grandmother gor the first time, I'm banning her ass from the hospital.
  • Have my own in law issues...MIL is from hell! A sad definition of a grandma. It took awhile but once my husband saw the writing on the wall for himself he distanced himself from them. Now he talks to her once a month for ten minutes on the phone only if she calls.My kids will NEVER have a relationship with her being beyond hello and goodbye. I cant prevent her from treating my hubby and I like sheet but I can stop her from doing it to my kids and I intend to keep her as far away as possible!

    Good luck to you! I do feel your pain
  • @2girls1boy... it sounds like we have the same MIL! ;) ...my husband will be transferring through his school in 2-3 years & I'm litterally counting the days until there's at least 2 hours between us & her nosy, backstabbing, uncensored drama!... I will litterally cry with JOY when we move away from here & I won't even tell my hubby why I'm crying! Lol
  • @vette_devil: we live in ny now and she is in fl. We will be moving back soon but there will be a 2-3 hr.distance between us! She will not make the effort to drive over...especially if I am home lol

    Mine only calls when she is almost positive that I am at work. Luckily my husband feels about the same way as I do. I know he keeps hope that she will change and it will get better. bless his heart! But that bridge is long since burnt..i am with newmommy_navywife...the day she kicks rocks will be most glorious!
  • I tell my mom the day she goes I will be singing ding dong the witch is dead! The witch is dead!.... it just sadden me that my own husband would choose his best friend and mother over his wife. I have been up visiting my mom for 4 days and not once has he asked how his daughter is doing nor me his pregnant wife....
  • While my future mother-law-in is wonderful, if not a bit quiet, my own mother is going to be the dreaded MIL from hell. My fiance is pretty good about handling her, but once in a while she drives him up the wall. She is highly stubborn, overly dramatic, very opinionated, and has a habit of bitterly criticizing people, particularly myself as her oldest daughter.

    He can take most of it in stride, but when she really tears into me in his presence, it makes him angry. When we first started dating nearly five years ago, she got it into her head she had been slighted by him (in reality, no such thing had happened); she took it upon herself to call him up without my knowledge, invited him over, and spent an hour yelling at him about all of my "transgressions" against her (I had refused to buy cigarettes for her, a COPD patient). I could hear the conversation from the room where I had chosen to stay, and he remained polite, yet firm in standing up for me while acknowledging/validating her opinions and feelings. For the next year or two, I - and anyone who would listen - continued to hear about how "rude" and "disrespectful" he had been to her, all because he wouldn't completely take her side and disrespect his then girlfriend.

    Thankfully, he knows she is crazy, so he takes her with a grain of salt, even if she does make us both nuts.
  • Woow, this is funny! Lol.
  • Same here! But it didn't stop until I checked hubby. U have to tell him to stand up to her n u all r not kids. Until then she will keep goin n goin n goin. He has to keep her out of ur house hold she pays no bills @ ur address
  • Wheb I first started dating my ex, his mom & I went out to lunch to "get to know each other", she proceeded to tell me that I was "put on this Earth by Satan to deter my son from his rightly path. He is a prophet for God and he is going to lead his people to the promise land. You don't fool me, and God will bring him back to his path and you will no longer have any power over him." Needless to say it was a very interesting lunch.
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