Getting so sick of my MIL!!!!!!!!!

newmommyFeb2012newmommyFeb2012
edited January 2012 in VENT (keep it peaceful!)
Now that its the final few days/weeks my MIL does not leave me the eff alone. She texts me in the morning then the middle of the day if I stop responding and at night if I again stop responding. I am so sick of making up excuses for why I don't respond and ready to flip out on her. My own mother doesn't even do that nor ever would! I can't say anything either because then shell write in her letters to my husband that I'm ignoring her and being rude. Ugh!!!! I wish he was here!

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  • newmomma13newmomma13
    Just tell her in the nicest way possible to try not to text you as much a she does cause your trying to get as much rest as you can before baby comes
  • Granny2BGranny2B
    Why do you think she keeps testing? Is she just nosey? Concerned for you since hubby is not there? Perhaps you could text her a message each morning that all is well and you will let her know when there is something to report.
  • three_cats_n_a_babythree_cats_n_a_baby
    I have a nosey old trout of a mil law too she is so mean and jealous i can sympathize!
  • Granny2BGranny2B
    Texting, not testing (although sounds like she is definately testing your patience!)
  • newmommyFeb2012newmommyFeb2012
    @newmomma13 I would, but it doesn't matter how I put it. What she does if i say anything whether it sounds mean or not she trys to victimize herself.

    @Granny2B Its how she is. She texts and calls her husband, all her kids, her mil, her mom and my hubby (when he can talk) all day long. She's very nosey and has to know what everyone is doing all the time. I usually ignore her when she texts me but now that its the end she texts me if i don't text her back. I can also have a convo with her in the morning and lunch and she still texts me at night. If texting her once a day was satisfying for her I wouldn't mind so much lol.

    @three_cats_n_a_baby Its horrible right? I remember when my hubby and I were going through troubles a month before our first year anniversary of being together, she sent his number to her friends daughter because she didn't like me. Now she tolerates me, but she's always jealous of me taking her oldest and since he's been with me he no longer comes at her every whim which makes her mad.
  • debsdebs
    Just keep doing what your doing and if you got to snap to put her in her place oh well I had to do that to my mil I got to the point I don't care my husbands under stands I can't and want talk to her all the time and twist things to make me look bad long story short we didn't talk to her for two years just started talking four months ago and we still hold her at a distance
  • newmommyFeb2012newmommyFeb2012
    @debs Wow guess our mils have a lot in common lol. I know my hubby was getting annoyed to where when he had his cell before he got sent to his new company for training he stopped talking to her completely. Hope things are better now. :-)
  • three_cats_n_a_babythree_cats_n_a_baby
    Mine tells me that she has post natal depression since my baby was born, tells me she wishes my sister in law had a baby and not me and won't let me take my baby from her if he has been crying a while, truly mental! Lol i promise to never be a mil like mine!yours sounds a joy too ha ha x
  • newmommyFeb2012newmommyFeb2012
    @three_cats_n_a_baby WOW!!! That must be miserable. I vow never to be a mil like these women too!
  • debsdebs
    My mil called my first her baby didn't want her son in the delivery room so she could be came to my parents banging on their door trying to see us. And worse of all we lost our second child two days after he was a still born she had her friend send my husband a message saying how could you do this to your mother. @three_cats_n_a_baby I also promised never to be a horrible mil
  • newmommyFeb2012newmommyFeb2012
    @debs Omg! I would've said screw my hubby feelings and screamed in her face. I already told my hubby if she try anything with our kids or try to be in charge of them I will say something and they won't be going over there for a while nor will I speak to her for a while.
  • debsdebs
    Yeah that was when we weren't talking to her for a year that's why we continued not to talk to her it took two years for her to call and talk like a normally person she still has no clue where our house is I just don't trust her I want all my kids grandparents in their lives but some times best thing is to put your foot down and stop all communication till they can act right
  • newmommyFeb2012newmommyFeb2012
    @debs Exactly what I think. I probably wouldn't trust her either.
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