so much baby shower drama between familys! help!!

devins_mommydevins_mommy
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
uhhh so today totally sucked!! my fiance and my mom got into a huge fight. how she puts her 2 cent into everything. and how iv been waiting for my cribset since christmas and I'm not getting it till sometime in april, whenever my shower is. and I'm due may 18th. my fiance's mom is paying for it and won't let anyone help. and my mom feels like she's controlling the whole babyshower. && I'm stuck in the middle and totally stressed out! I don't want to have to be putting up a crib and re aranging my room to fit everything and putting thing away from the baby shower at almost 9 months preggo :( I just don't know what to do! I just want to start nesting, is that a lot to ask??

Comments

  • MrsLaMasterMrsLaMaster
    No its not, have u thought about having it alil earler,,it may help ease the stress and put u at ease with putting thing together.
  • devins_mommydevins_mommy
    no, my mom said I have no control lol. and on top of it all, my fiance is throwing a fit because he isn't allowed at the shower, personaly I would like him there. but again, I have no control.
  • complicated_mazecomplicated_maze
    Its ur shower and ur mom needs to listen to ur needs. I would try getting both mothers and sit at the table and assign them jobs for the shower. Tell them what u would like ex: havin ur hunny there or having a date set already.. sometimes baby comes early and wat are u gunna do if u have no baby things yet. Tell them that. I'm plannin to have mine wen I'm 7months jus so I have that time to slowly put things together and not have to feel rushed
  • devins_mommydevins_mommy
    its hard, because my mom works a lot and his mom works late. and I guess that was the best time for the baby shower. and its toward the end of april, so its cutting it close.
  • complicated_mazecomplicated_maze
    Yea I would say cutting it waaay close.. why not instead of havin a baby shower u guys all do babyroom together settin it up and decorations that way it gets done and u guys arr all together
  • PreggoGigglesPreggoGiggles
    I would definitely let her know your concerns. You really want to stamp out her control over you quick, don't want her trying to call the shots on everything. I would agree that's too late. There are lots of stuff your gonna need besides the cribset too, don't want to be overwhelmed when all that stuff comes in at the last minute. You might not be as able to do things when you are that far along.
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