10 dpo *update*

ValVal
edited March 2012 in Trying to conceive
Tested again bfn :/ idk what to think....sigh...could it be possible I'm still testing early??
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  • RedShadoe0RedShadoe0
    Yeah I think we're both testing to early :( I calculated it out and I got my first bfp 18 dpo last time... Granted I was avoiding testing then but yeah, at 18dpo the line was still super faint. So I'm thinking I'm one of those that doesn't produce a lot of hormones. Keep your head up till AF shows! It's not over yet mama!
  • RedShadoe0RedShadoe0
    I got a bfn this morning too... Lol tryin again in the morning!!!
  • MyLove2MyLove2
    You might be testing to early you'd have to wait about a full month. Once your af is late then you should test. I was like that too i tested twice way too early. one the month ended and i haven't gotten my af yet i tried again and thats when i found out. Good luck! ;-)
  • RedShadoe0RedShadoe0
    edited March 2012
    BFN again :( >:p at 11dpo (maybe 10). I'm gettin sooooo discouraged. Sigh.
  • captivatedcaptivated
    Yep, sounds like it! I didn't get a positive with my first until the day of my first missed period. Didn't get a positive with my second until almost 10 weeks pregnant and that was by blood test.
  • RTMommyRTMommy
    Boo. Just keep waiting it out, girl. :) It ain't over til the fat lady sings. ;)
  • ValVal
    @mommy2ari- yes i kno i need to keep more positive =)
    @redshadoe0- hopefully we are testing to early! this month is a little weird my breast are now sore and af is due on fri?? i dont wanna retest until fri or hopefully a couple of days after if she doesnt show
    @ all- thank you girls for being so supportive and positive! last night i had a dream i had a positive hpt test weird!!1... i dont ever dream about pregnancy or anything... i think i might just be thinking too much in to this.
  • RedShadoe0RedShadoe0
    @val Haha I keep dreaming about it too... Some nights I get a positive some nights its still a bfn. Guess it depends on my.mood that night. AF is due bw Friday and Tuesday... Depending on what my cycle wants to do this month.
    @captivated good lord I hope that doesn't happen... I want those two pretty lines ASAP!!! LOL although by the time you found out you were damn near outa your first trimester... That'd be nice too, not worrying as much.
  • RTMommyRTMommy
    I dream I'm pregnant even when I'm not trying to be. Lol I took a break from ttc after my D&C in October, and still dreamed about BFPs. Obsessed, much?...yes. :) I am still getting bfns, but I have just about every symptom like I did with my last two pregnancies, so I'm just waiting it out. I'm only 8 or 9 dpo I think, so I'm going to see what Saturday brings. Hopefully by then I'll be close enough to AF time to know what's on the agenda for the next months. :) Patience isn't something I was born with or practice well.
  • captivatedcaptivated
    edited March 2012
    I still don't know why the HPTs were negative with me so far along. I was CONVINCED I was pregnant even though the doctors said it was impossible due to the chemo, etc. I tested daily for 2 weeks, all BFNs (I spent about 200 bucks on tests...first response, clearblue, answer, first response, store brand) and then went and bought the most sensitive medical grade tests online and THOSE were BFNs as well. I thought I was crazy, but wasn't getting periods in over 5 months due to the chemo and medical induced menopause. I asked my doc for a blood test and she said no, that it's impossible due to my condition, chemo and menopause. I got fed up, made an appt with Planned Parenthood for a blood test, ate up my fingernails for 48 hrs for the results and it was positive.

    Then the doc told me I had to have a medically necessary termination due to the harmful effects from the chemo and that there was an almost zero chance of baby being born without defects of some sort. I refused and she dropped me as a patient. I had to call all around town to find an OB and then my insurance wasn't approved until 22 weeks. I was terrified that something was wrong and I should have aborted....long story short, I have a beautiful and healthy 8mo old little boy.

    Sorry for the book! I hope that you get your little miracle! If not this month, I have a feeling it will be soon! Stop stressing about the BFNs!
  • RedShadoe0RedShadoe0
    @captivated wow.. that's quite a story!!! I'm so glad things worked out and F that stupid doc that wanted you to terminate!!!! Holy crap!
  • captivatedcaptivated
    Well, I understand where she was coming from. I did the research as well and the chances were not high for a normal pregnancy. I just felt like if I terminated, I may not have another chance!

    When will you test again?
  • ValVal
    update**** :/
    so earlier this morning i checked my cervix i tried being careful ( i have my nails done) it was med-high.. so im like umm it went up
    i went to the restroom right now and i had some very very light blood mixed with cm... but i mean light.. now im wondering if its af geering up to show up or if i scratched myself trying to look for my cevix... aghh im soo upset
  • ValVal
    @caotivated- omg ur story made me teary eye* not trying to gt all religious and stuff but God sure does work in mysterious ways.. it gave me hope* thanks for sharing it! i bet he is a beautiful baby boy
  • RedShadoe0RedShadoe0
    @captivated every morning till AF comes or the doc decides to induce a period.

    Val... Implantion bleeding????
  • ValVal
    ok so im 12 dpo.. feeling wet the lil tiny bit of blood i seen yesterday has disappeared (so far) i called my Dr for my progestrone level result the lab hasnt faxed it over just yet aghhh just to have me weight that much longer.. lol im giving my self until next wed cd 33 thats been my longest cycle. which if all goes right anything after fri i should be considered late..
    symptoms so far.. some lil cramps here and there nothing to bad my bbs feel heavy real heavy.. and thats pretty much it besides feeling tired all the time
  • ValVal
    ok soooo my DR just called me back.. my levels were at 35.8 less than last month (42) but it seems like i did ovulate.. all she said was lets hope i dont get a period this month and if so call back to set up an appointment :/

    im starting to think HE might be my problem so im gna ask to retest him. last sept he was tested at 20.5 m on his sperm count dr said it was on the low side but it should be ok... BUT he told me only 50% of them were active :-| ....ummm?
  • RedShadoe0RedShadoe0
    Your progesterone levels are so much better than mine! Good luck!!!! Next Wednesday is my longest cycle too at 35 days.
  • ValVal
    @redshadoe0- have you tested lately, im kinda under the impression ill be starting soon :/ like fri or sat soon. good luck to yu too keep me updated
  • RedShadoe0RedShadoe0
    Been testing every morning and so far nothing. It's feeling like I'm gonna start soon too. We shall see!
  • ValVal
    aghh i believe im out! im spotting again and its brighter red! i usually do spot b4 af and af is due in two days :/ i dont know what to think anymore.. its getting exhausting i just wanna cry :-(( why has this been so hard for me!!!!
  • RedShadoe0RedShadoe0
    Idk honey :( doesn't seem fair huh. Drives me crazy.
  • ValVal
    @redshadoe0 @rtmommy- anything new?? new symptoms any bfp???
    well af is due tomorrow or sat for me n nothing so far i still do have a tiny bit of brown discharge..n breast still heavy
  • RedShadoe0RedShadoe0
    Nope. Fixing to go demand a blood test. Tired as Hell, cranky, constipated. And mini cramps. Twinges almost. That's it. Could be pms :( I really suck at this waiting thing... Today is 30 days since last period, 13dpo. I know its early for a htp still but it should be in the blood if i am right?
  • RTMommyRTMommy
    @Val nothing for me. I question symptoms I do have. I'm sure I'm just cramping from pms :/ I don't get it. Still bfn but AF not due til Saturday/Sunday anyway. I am in limbo. And @RedShadoe0 depending on the type of blood test they do and what their 'normal values' are, you may still get a negative on that too.
  • RedShadoe0RedShadoe0
    @rtmommy mother$??@*#+ I thought anything over a 5 was considered +? Sigh... Way to burst the bubble Haha. Jk. AF is due at the LATEST Tuesday... If i was on a normal cycle it'd be here by now though. I just don't know Wtf my body is up to... Playing tricks on me and giggling to itself or is it trying to cooperate amd just can't. Ugh.
  • RedShadoe0RedShadoe0
    I guess if.it comes back negative I'll have to wait patiently like a good girl. @-)
  • RedShadoe0RedShadoe0
    ...... Okay. I guess ill be patient now. They only did a qualitative blood test... Testing at 25miu (which first response early response tests do). Soooooo.... Negative. But i guess like you said, who knows. @rtmommy
  • ValVal
    @redshodeo0- oh no im sorry but yes def keep a positive out look on this. i know its easier said than done! but we always have next month...
  • RedShadoe0RedShadoe0
    @rtmommy its it normal for lab techs to NOT KNOW the parameters of a lab test they perform?? I just asked to verify the levels and what determines a yes or no... The lady says well I.don't know, the machine tells me. REALLY?! Oh she made me so angry... Sooooo... What's NORMALLY the cutoff level? Is it 25mui ???
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