Get to see baby tomorrow BUT I'M SCARED

michellebabynum_3michellebabynum_3
edited March 2011 in Third Trimester
this is my 5th ultrasound bc they found a spot on her heart!!!! They said it's common and usually goes away but what if it doesn't?? It could b down simdrom,a heart mermer and other things. this is my only girl I have 2 boys and have waited forever for a girl and now I'm scared to have her. I want to b soo happy but I keep thinking what if it's my fault she has this problem. I need help has anyone had this problem b4

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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
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  • michellebabynum_3michellebabynum_3
    Ive been trying to take my mind off it but the closer I get to my due date I worry more. I'm having a hard time buying stuff for her bc i start thinking what if she can't wear that or use that.
  • 4senough4senough
    My son was born with a spot on his heart. It did turn out to be a murmer, but it doesn't affect him physically or mentally. Very healthy seven year old. And don't worry about not buying her a lot before she gets here, its smarter to make sure the clothes will fit her before you buy. :)
  • lucky7lucky7
    With my 2nd they told me she was going to have a heart murmur 2 and when she was born she was fine.my 3rd they told me he was going to have down syndrome they even asked if I wanted to terminate him.when he was born he looked normal until he hit bout 4months I noticed he was slower than he was supposed to be he is 8now almost 9 and has the compression level of a 5yr old.he also has a serious speech problem they think might be apraxia and he is borderline autistic but when u look at him u would nvr guess.I named him angel and he is my special angel;)
  • michellebabynum_3michellebabynum_3
    thanks y'all I needed to hear that I was not alone. We just found out she does still have the spot and she is too small like little people small. They r not sure but bc I'm only 4"9 thats what they think. I don't believe them bc everyone says diff about my hight. All I know is we will love her no matter what :X
  • KaidynsMommyKaidynsMommy
    Omg that is the same thing im going threw right now I go back on the 14th to see my baby because of the white spot on her heart ..... im just really glad to know im not the only one because this has really been bothering me
  • michellebabynum_3michellebabynum_3
    Yes it feel like I can't enjoy this baby bc I'm always worried. They sent me to a specialist she said they r common but it still doesn't make me stop worrying
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