MIL vent
Well its really a in law vent...
Last year when my daughter was born they pushed and pushed me to have her earlier because they were going to a graduation(for a person that's not even FAMILY) well when she was born the next day they left to south Dakota for the graduation. My husband had to go back work and my family lives hundreds of miles away so they couldn't come right away. So I was alone for almost a month taking care of a baby after a c section(after I had asked for help). Not fun. I'm still pretty bitter about the whole thing.
Then my husbands sister gets sick and they DROP EVERYTHING and go stay with her (she lives on the other side of the country) for a couple of months. When my husband had heart problems and had to have 2 surgeries to correct it they never once came to.visit or even call to see how he was doing. Or even ask if I needed help. So once again I'm on my own taking care of a baby while pregnant with no help (mind you his family lives 1 hour away).
So now I just had another baby last week(they still haven't been over to see if I need help or call to check up on us). Luckily my husband has a little bit more time off of work. But I'm going to get my son circumcised next week and my husband has a prior engagement that same day. Since I had a c section I cant drive to the Dr so my husband asked his mother if she could drive me. She says no that she is going out.of town next week to another graduation (once again not even family) in Florida. This is the first time she had told us.about it. My husband is pretty upset because everyone always come first before him even when they aren't even.family and I can see that it hurts him a lot.
Last year when my daughter was born they pushed and pushed me to have her earlier because they were going to a graduation(for a person that's not even FAMILY) well when she was born the next day they left to south Dakota for the graduation. My husband had to go back work and my family lives hundreds of miles away so they couldn't come right away. So I was alone for almost a month taking care of a baby after a c section(after I had asked for help). Not fun. I'm still pretty bitter about the whole thing.
Then my husbands sister gets sick and they DROP EVERYTHING and go stay with her (she lives on the other side of the country) for a couple of months. When my husband had heart problems and had to have 2 surgeries to correct it they never once came to.visit or even call to see how he was doing. Or even ask if I needed help. So once again I'm on my own taking care of a baby while pregnant with no help (mind you his family lives 1 hour away).
So now I just had another baby last week(they still haven't been over to see if I need help or call to check up on us). Luckily my husband has a little bit more time off of work. But I'm going to get my son circumcised next week and my husband has a prior engagement that same day. Since I had a c section I cant drive to the Dr so my husband asked his mother if she could drive me. She says no that she is going out.of town next week to another graduation (once again not even family) in Florida. This is the first time she had told us.about it. My husband is pretty upset because everyone always come first before him even when they aren't even.family and I can see that it hurts him a lot.
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