I got married at 17 & we always went out together and had fun so i dnt regret it. We had our first when i was 19. We are happy and about to have 2 kids.
I got with my hubby at 15 moved in with him two months after my 16 birthday. We finally had our rainbow baby when I was 18 and 1wk and a half after our sons 1st birthday I got a bfp. (19 at the time) I just turned 20 a couple of days ago. Even though I lived my live pretty fast I am really ok how things ended out I love my son and my husband. Marriage hasn't been perfect but it isn't supposed to be. I think my husband is real nonchalant about the 'I didn't get to live my life' situation bc he was 21 when I was 15 and is going to be 26 and I'm 20. Sometimes mmy biggest regret was not being smarter about my education even though I managed to graduate high school I didn't get to go to prom but that's it
I left my husband for greener pastures.... those pastures looked good from far away but up close its just cow shit painted green... looking back I know things never would have worked with my husband anyway but my regret is not trying harder to work on making my own pasture green again....
Trust me sweetie, the party life gets old. I started young, wayyy too young. Started drinking at 15 and going to clubs at 17. Stopped when I was 24. Yes it was fun at the time but honestly the day after you just wake up broke, feeling like shit, and with a lot of regrets. Honestly I didn't gain a damn thing from those years. And I had friends with kids who left them to party with me and the children suffer more. If you're not in love with your husband that's one thing, but don't give up your family for the nightlife. It's just not worth it. And quite frankly, it's too late now.
Yeah I myself started drinking at 15. Smoking pot by 16-17. So I got to "live" for a little while before I settled down. I'm kinda glad I did because who knows what I could be doing if I hadn't. I was with a really controlling boyfriend who emotionally abused me before I left for the military and met my husband.
@ynvtish bahaha negatory, i was quickly to say I was married and was showing pictures of madison lol @kayleigh27 i'm glad you met your husband and got out of the bad relationship @nova i doubt i'd change anything if i could go back, i'm just going through a funk. @starrcoxo9 thanks i needed to hear that @tinka1326 haha shit painted green, i believe it I got to get back on my computer for everyone else, sorry
But i am feeling bettee this morning, guess i just needed to get it off my chest
I have been married 8yrs and with him for 11yrs next month. We were 22 when we got married. He's my best friend. We are parents of 5 beautiful children. Our oldest was 2yrs old when we got married
I got married at 19 and we've been married for almost 8 years. We've had a couple of "rut" moments where we didn't quite click into place but looking back I feel it's because we were putting other things ahead of each other. And that's never good. We struggled for over five years to have children and finally had a son last September and now I'm pregnant with our second. I don't regret a moment. Not even our off times. Don't give up cause it DOES get difficult but persevering and making it through feels so much better. And you get stronger together which can mean the world to you both and to your children.
You're welcome hun Glad I could help!! There have definitely been times since Tessa was born when for a few seconds I've looked back and missed my freedom, but when I look at her little face, the past seems so insignificant
Im so glad someone posted this, i feel the exact same way. I became a dad at nineteen and tho i love my daughter i feel i missed out on so much. It makes me mad because i was so sheltered as a kid and when i met my now fiance i got a taste of experiences i never had before. I thought i was the only one, i go on facebook and see what all my old friends are doing and it makes me jealus. My fiance tells me stories about here teen years (shes 9 years older) and i feel like the best years of my life have been taken from me. For some reason it really bothers me idk why, atleast i know im not the only one.
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@kayleigh27 i'm glad you met your husband and got out of the bad relationship
@nova i doubt i'd change anything if i could go back, i'm just going through a funk.
@starrcoxo9 thanks
@tinka1326 haha shit painted green, i believe it
I got to get back on my computer for everyone else, sorry
But i am feeling bettee this morning, guess i just needed to get it off my chest