having to apologize to my bd for being in the hospital last night??? wtf

finallyamommafinallyamomma
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
I was in the er last night because I was bleeding and cramping. I called my bd who was at his friends house drinking. He tells me ok ill be there in a minute. An HOUR passes by and he still hasn't show up, so at this point I begin to panic and get mad. I called to the house of the friend that he was at and he hasn't even left and sounded drunk! Now its the next day and he is mad at me for calling his friends house and bothering him!!! Wow I really thought he loved me and his son more than that, but I guess I was seriously mistaken.

Comments

  • ginmae78ginmae78
    Wow. What a turd! You deserve better and so does your baby :)
  • JwigsJwigs
    I'd kick his ass. Personally. Get all hormonal all over the place.
  • MommmyX3MommmyX3
    ughhh! i am really starting to think all men are complete jerks. you don't need that. you deserve so much more. i hope everything was okay & that you're feeling better today!
  • bummy87bummy87
    tell him to grow some bal** hes gonna be a dad n should be more responsible n he should feel ashamed that u had to do that bevause of his lack of responsibility
  • bummy87bummy87
    ps dont.smash anything my husband did simile n I punched him n sprained my wri$t then smashed my computer n almost the car window, so not worth it cause now I have no computer lol
  • paytonnoellepaytonnoelle
    wowww, that would not be okay with me. what did you say? "yeah i'm sooo sorry i bothered your friend when i'm in the hospital because there could be complications with our baby. you're right, drinking comes before the wellbeing of your son." what a pos, i'll gladly smack him for you
  • rootzmamarootzmama
    Thats gay, for lack of a better word. unfortunatly most guys are like that. My man knows better. If he ever did something so stupid and hurtful id whoop his assssss. If I were u id give him a big fat FU and leave it at that lol I hope u are ok and feeling better. Tell ur bd I said hes.a butthole [-(
  • rootzmamarootzmama
    @bummy87 lmao but I bet while u were smashing everything it seemed totally worth it and completely sane, am I right ;)
  • bummy87bummy87
    sortof, I was pretty emotional he sai4 he was gonna leave me n after 2 nearly 3 kids n 5 yrs I dont think so lol
  • loveourlittleoneloveourlittleone
    WTF is right. @Jwigs I couldn't have said it better myself. That guy needs a serious slap to the head.
  • Rissalee7Rissalee7
    I woke up spotting this morning told my bf I was sorry I thought the spotting was my fault and he got mad at me and said its not ur fault went to dr and kailee's doing just fine
  • heatherlynnheatherlynn
    Wow..that sucks...I know how it is though...my bf took me to the er when I bled and I was scared and he couldn't even stick it out long enough to get out of the waiting room! He went and got himself dinner and met up with his cousin...and was getting upset..wondering what was taking so long...ugh..guys I swear
  • mom60511mom60511
    I'm sorry that is not Ok. If that is how most men are than I guess I better start kissing my mans a** and realize how lucky I am because he would never do that to me or his child. How ridiculous and how sad for the future of our children if this IS what the majority of men are like. I will soon have 2 sons and if I found out they pulled something like that it would not be pretty.
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