My cousin just made me feel bad about being preggo again!

ebbry89ebbry89
edited August 2012 in VENT (keep it peaceful!)
I am finally telling some people that I am pregnant and he just made me even more scared to tell my mom and the rest of my family because they will pretty much say negative mean things to me!! Idk what to do I can't move out because I can't find anyone to sign for a apartment for me and I'm pretty much stuck and I have nowhere to go.. I really wanted to move out before I tell them but I can't and I'm almost due soon and I'm stuck.. But I really don't care what they think it's just they are gonna make me real uncomfortable and they are gonna make it a big argument

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  • KylieMommieKylieMommie
    @ebbry89. I bet everybody will come around just give them a little time! CONGRATULATIONS!!!
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  • ebbry89ebbry89
    Section 8 is closed in the state I am in and public housing definitely has a waiting list and honestly I can't take living with my mom and her boyfriend any longer and once I tell her about me being pregnant she will definitely make things harder for me
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  • ebbry89ebbry89
    As far as I know the city I am in and the ones around me is closed as far as the rest of the state idk but I am in Virginia and I have a eviction on my credit so even if I do apply I won't get anything and I can't apply anywhere due to that eviction but that's what happens when being a good friend goes bad I end up with messed up credit and nowhere to stay
  • Steph_Due_101611Steph_Due_101611
    Look on craigslist for a place for rent. That's what i did. No background check or credit check. And also how far along are you?
  • ebbry89ebbry89
    I've looked on Craigslist as well and still no luck and idk how far along I am I just found out I'm pregnant but I think I'm 23 weeks
  • georgias_mummygeorgias_mummy
    Babe sooner u tell longer u have to sort out with your family before baby comes u never know they may suprise u mine did and I was prepared for them to kick me out and never talk 2 me again! All the best and hope u can all work it out a baby should be a blessing not a worry :) xx
  • ebbry89ebbry89
    I know they won't kick me out but they will definitely not talk to me so I'd rather be out before I tell them so I won't have to deal with the backlash
  • georgias_mummygeorgias_mummy
    Yer I don't blame u hun just easier to tell nw as stress won't b gd 4 u or buba xx
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  • ebbry89ebbry89
    Like 1 or 2 years but I never had credit to begin with so it all sucks and that goes for my sons father he barely has credit so he wouldnt be able to sign himself
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  • OurlittlenuggetOurlittlenugget
    Definitely look at private rentals. I rent out the condo I used to live in before I got married, and I don't run credit checks. Keep looking, they're out there.
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  • ebbry89ebbry89
    I can't find any private owners but that website helped I only found one place but I'm actually trying to move in a couple weeks so waiting list aren't helping me but imma check this one place out and see what happens and I'm not the one putting it in my name because I have no job I only get tanf and that doesn't help none so I hope this place works out because I have to get the heck outta here
  • ebbry89ebbry89
    And that eviction on my credit will remain there because I'm not paying for someone else debt the apartment wasn't for me so I'm not paying it off until I'm rich and that may never happen lol
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  • ebbry89ebbry89
    I've done the waiting list thing I got a call and they denied me because of my credit so I won't do the waiting list thing again I waited a whole year I can't do it again I have to leave this house in the next couple of weeks before my mom finds out I'm pregnant I gotta be gone lol
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  • julesjules
    Well at the end of the they are family so they might have opinions at first but after time they will adapt. I'm sorry your going through this. I don't understand why they wouldn't be happy for u? And how come u need someone else to sign for a lease?
  • ebbry89ebbry89
    Because they don't like my sons father and for some reason I'm always judged more than other people in the family but I've pretty much accomplished more than the cousins I have that have multiple kids but I signed for a friend of mine which is now not a friend for a apartment for her and her daughter and she ain't pay rent and got evicted and it's on my credit now so I can't get a apartment in my name.
  • lashay07lashay07
    Hey! I know how that feels. I'm a preachers daughter and I got pregnant at 19! I was scared as heck to tell my dad and mom. It wasn't until @,5months is when I told them. My dad was mad for only a sec! And he was like things happen. Which I was completely shocked! Just tell them. You never know what might happen. If they kick you out go to transitional housing. They have houses you can stay in and they will help you get on your feet.
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