no sex

karenkaren
edited August 2012 in Pregnant
Hey everyone...I was just wondering does anyone feel the same way I do...I don't like having sex anymore n I can't stand being touched or kissed..not even cuddling...when my bd breathes on me it makes me wanna puke....this is my third pregnancy n I've felt like this every one of my pregnancies....is there something wrong with me or is this normal? He seems to think I've lost interest in him....idk what this is....anyone?

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  • 1stWoodsBaby1stWoodsBaby
    Girl yes!! But my issue is for other reasons. My husband swears it's just the hormones though.
  • karenkaren
    Its very nerve wrecking...we argue about this everyday....he says I don't show no type of affection .....
  • 1stWoodsBaby1stWoodsBaby
    We argued about it with my first pregnancy last year. He'd storm around so pissed off. I coulsnt help it. Just the idea of.touching him grossed me out. Wish I could help with tips or advice, but nothing ever worked for me.
  • sehra4177sehra4177
    Yes! I was the same, and every pregnancy even after its less appealing to me to have sex. I used to love it now not so much:( no sex drive...I wonder how you can get it back lol
  • EricaK22EricaK22
    Yep. I'm just uncomfortable being pregnant, and always feel unattractive..so I don't even want him looking at me, let alone touching me.
  • caroline8_pcaroline8_p
    I just don't care for sex at all.. ever
  • sands3sands3
    My son is 9 months old and I have no sex drive. I did when I was pregnant but my husband was deployed
  • karenkaren
    Wow I wish there was something that could stop the madness because he is really pissing me off about memory having affection...I see nothing worked for anyone.
  • trixiesmom8trixiesmom8
    edited August 2012
    So everyone who has no sex drive..I asked my doc yesterday about it cause I thought it might have been the bc messing with it but she said to take a "date night" once a month where someone else watches lo and you and your s/o can have alone time and that should spark everything back up. Cause it'll make you slow down and actually spend time with them without having to fuss with lo while trying to do so. I am also 9.5 months pp and have no drive what so ever.
    As for while being pregnant I think its safe to say you get to a point where you feel huge as a whale and do not want to be touched which turns you off completely.

    @sands3 @1stwoodsbaby @sehra4177
    @caroline8_p @blessedtxmom @ericak22 I know some of you are pregnant now but I was referring to after lo gets here.
  • MommyLovesSparkleMommyLovesSparkle
    In the beginning of my pregnancy I couldn't stand my bf... I hated him. After 9weeks it just stopped and boy was I glad it did I hated hating him.
  • willothewispwillothewisp
    I'm the same, sex drive disappeared when pg & @ 7 months pp its still mia :-(
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  • doodlesdoodles
    Im the ssame @HomeBirthAdvocate. If I just do it it makes it all better. My babe is 11 months and I still struggle. It takes time ladies. Just take the plunge and try!
  • karenkaren
    Gross. Just thinking about it makes my stomach cringe...
  • tinka1326tinka1326
    I'm with @homebirthadvocate on this one... the less you have sex the less you will want it.
  • trixiesmom8trixiesmom8
    Lol sorry. Hope you get back to your old self once babe gets here.
  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    It happened to me! We actually broke up because I didnt know it was my hormones!! I was completely repulsed by him. The only thing that DID help me a bit, was recreating one of our best dates. Helped remind me why I loved him. Try explaining that the hormones are messing with you. Get a dr to explain it to him. Show you love him in other ways (lunch notes, make his favorite dinner) but mostly hang in there. It won't feel like ghis forever.
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  • sehra4177sehra4177
    Oh I'm not pregnant...my son is 5 months. And after having my 2 yr old its never come back:'(
  • MollyMolly
    @1stWoodsBaby Sent you a pm so I don't hijack the thread.
  • dadof2n1togodadof2n1togo
    @HomeBirthAdvocate ok not to sound creepy or anything here but I OFFICIALLY LOVE YOU for your last post lol.
  • lucyloo288lucyloo288
    Ugh.. I want to be intimate with my husband, (not just having sex, but cuddles and mushy stuff, too) but I'm in the same boat. Sometimes its him.. just the thought of him touching me makes me want so puke.. sometimes It's me.. I feel like a whale.. hopefully I get my sex drive back after this kid is born! It wasn't this way with my daughter..
  • denoisdenois
    yes im the same!! first pregnancy i found out i was pregnant and banned sex from the day i found out! it was about 8 weeks after my little one was born that i had sex again but didnt enjoy it! i think we possibly had sex 6 times over the following 9months and i fell pregnant again!! again i have banned sex! we argued so much about it at first but luckily hes got used to it now and i have told him to never expect it again if hes not willing to get the snip or put somethin on the end of it cos im not havin another baby in a years time!! he actually said to me the other day there is more to our relationship than sex!! glad he understands lol
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  • dadof2n1togodadof2n1togo
    ^^^^ lol good work. Wish my wife would work this out lol.
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