20 and having a baby...

edited March 2011 in Pregnant
Im due in november and was kind of wondering if there was 20 year old mothers to be on here like me and was wonder if u ever get overwhelmed or jusr think its way to early???

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  • I just turned 21 yesterday I'm due September 16 and I'm really excited at first I was so afraid and thought I couldn't do it but now I'm really attached :ar!
  • Im due September 7th and Im also 20. However i Will make 21 before i have the baby. I am extremely excited but nervous at the same time. I do get overwhelmed at times but i just continue to think positive and strive to be the best mother i can be!
  • Thats exactly how i feel. At times i feel like i know i can do this and this all i need but then at times i stress about college and work and how ima balance a baby with that...
  • I was a mom at 19 and now soon to be 22 with this one. The up side of being young, u chase the baby around n still have energy lol
  • So true lol... thanks for the advise everyone... I just was wondering if i was alone with those feelings but ima handle my,business (baby first lol)
  • I will be 20 in a few weeks and I am due in November too. It may be a little early for me, because i'm in school and working, but I have family who will help babysit and a few friends as well. I don't have any regrets, it is just another blessing in my eyes.
  • I got the same to just dont know,how they going to react i havent even told them yet only people who know right now is yall and my fiance... I'll tell my family soon hopefully
  • Im 20 and due in november this will be my 2nd pregnancy and 3ed baby my 1st pregnancy was twin girls im a little scared but I think ill be okay ;;)
  • Aww,im scared to but i think after i get over the fear of telling my dad everything will go well... I know i will be the best mother i can be to my baby...
  • edited March 2011
    My husband and I are both twenty!

    We are expecting baby Oct.5th.....at times i'm like "omg wtf am I doing" but it all fades away at u/s :)
  • I'm 20, due July 21st. (Turn 21 August 26th) at first my husband and I were like, What? Because my lady parts were messed up and I hadn't had an actual period since June. But we took 4 home test and there was no denying it.
    We got married last July and this was our first year out on our own, so of course we were scared. I was going to school working 20 hours a week and he had to take the year off because of finaid, so he's working full-time.
    After the initial shock wore off we were thrilled; we unexpectedly became one of the 'married in July pregnant by October' couples.
    When we told our parents, they weren't shocked. My hatred of going to the doctor for birth control plus the fact I'm allergic to latex gave away we weren't using anything. Haha.

    We're still scared sometimes, but our friends and family will help us. Friends will physically be there more, we live 3 hours away from family.
  • I'm twenty,willbe seven months pregnant when I turn21 in August :)
  • I'm 20 turning 21 in may & prego with my second baby :) it seems very overwhelming at first but it gets better. Once you see your little one for the first time you'll experience a love like you've never felt before. & parents may be upset/disappointed at first but give it time hun they'll come around. Good luck & congrats!
  • I'm 20 due in august with baby number 2 I had my first when I was 17 it is very overwhelming at times but I wouldn't change it for anything. I love being a young mom and although its rough sometimes there are just as many rewarding times! Good luck to all of you mommy's!
  • Well i actually am 19 now turn 20 in may and having my baby in november... Marysue congrats i wish i had it like that but my fiance and i aint getting married to the summer of next year due to the fact i dont want to walk down the aisle preggo
  • im 20 and will be turning 21 on july 9th. Our baby is due on the 25th!! the first months of my pregnancy i would think a lot about what the heck was i thinking?! but just as long as you have your bf/husband support and family , you will be ok :) just strive for the best!
  • By the time I was 20 I had a 2yr old and a 3month old and I was pregnant with my 3rd and just got married.I wouldn't have had my life any other way.I love it.im now 30 and preg wit #5.I realize now my mind is more ready now but my body was def more ready then.I did the best I could do I made mistakes and I learned and at 30 I still do.CONGRATULATIONS to all the mommies and u do the best u can!good luck ladies!
  • edited March 2011
    I JUST TURNED 20 LAST MONTH!! I USED TO FEEL THAT WAY BUT IM SO OVER IT. NEVER REALLY CARE WAT PEOPLE THINK ANYWAY! A WISE MAN TOLD ME ITS BEST TO HAVE THEM YOUNG ANYWAY SO DNT BE ASHAMED. U WILL B A GREAT MOM :)
  • I just turned 19 and am 3 months pregnant. I also feel ashamed at getting pregnant at such a young age especially since the father is not in my life. I almost feel like im not allowed to be happy about having a baby. But things happen its life. Im just thankful I'm graduated from highschool and in college. It would be worse if I had gotten pregnant at like 16
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