I would tell him. My husband and I had this discussion once (no idea why, really. Lol) but he said if I didn't tell him that was like I was hiding something I felt guilty for (like cheating) which is what it could turn into. My hubby said he'd rather me be open about it. And since yours has been from day one, he may be the same way. That's just my two cents
I would not. What would it accomplish? I only see it hurting the situation. If you never plan on doing it again without his awareness, I can't see it solving anything. If it ever does happen again, be honest with him then.
You are hesitant for a reason, go with your instinct. Telling him may cause more trouble than it's worth. I normally would tell you to be upfront and honest, but you being hesitant for months is for a reason. You've explored that need and if you feel that you'd never do it again, then I'd just keep it to myself.
Dont tell him. If your not contemplating a "relationship " with her and shes not affecting you and his relationship dont he may only say hes ok with it but not really be.......... my husband has said he would like to watch me be with someone else like as a fantasy but i can 100% guarantee if it did happen he would never trust that i would stay faithful even though it is his idea
Well if he said he wouldn't care of u ever tell him about it when u do try it then I don't know why u would worry either way. But if u feel better by telling him then I would tell him his not going to be upset that it's been some time since he never even cared in first place.
Make the decision tht works best for you and stand by it. If u choose to not tell then forget it and move on, if u tell him then talk it thru until u both r confident tht the problem was resolved, do Wat makes u happy. Everyone has their own choice and in the end it is u who has to be able to move on. Best of luck in whatever decision u make
I don't know if "messed things up is how I would catergorize it....that's harsh.
I think only you know your hubby and how he would handle it. Follow your heart and do the right thing by him (meaning what you know deep down he would want you to do)
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I think only you know your hubby and how he would handle it. Follow your heart and do the right thing by him (meaning what you know deep down he would want you to do)