If I hear that one more time im gonna lose it.....

vegas_galvegas_gal
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
I am so angry! My hubby and I been married for almost 10 years. We have two boys 7 & 6. And now expecting a girl. People in and out of the family keeps on telling me. "Your pregnant againg? After this one fix yourself." WTF! We don't ask Ppl for money, we don't live of the Gov'mt. Who gave them the right to tell me what to do or not do???

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  • MrsAnderson0602MrsAnderson0602
    I have learned over this most recent pregnancy that non pregnant people say the most ridiculous things. As long as you, your Hubby, and your kids r happy that is all that matters. Just let it go in one ear and out the other Mama.
  • MayBabyGirlMayBabyGirl
    Yeah that only makes three! I wanted three but hubby and I decided two would be good :) I am due in May with our first, maybe next time will be twins :) wishful thinking right lol
  • raquel30raquel30
    Oh I hear u girl I get that a lot also from my family and people I don't even know its like no asked u for your opinion so shut it I actually do tell them that its like they don't take care of, them buy them the things they need, so y even stick there nose in your business they just get on my nerves also people just need to mind there own business.
  • hoosierMamaOf4hoosierMamaOf4
    I am so with you on this I'm on #4 and she wasn't planned but that does not mean we will love her any less! I hear all the time "Don't u know what causes that" my reply finally started to be, "Sure do, don't you wish you got it as much" or "I don't ask for unsolicited advice so you can keep it to yourself" most ppl are taken aback and usually apologize.
  • mrs_rodneymrs_rodney
    Well I plan on having as many kids as we can afford. Who knows that might 10. Lol I hope so because I love kids. I get told I'm crazy all the time when I tell people that but I don't care what they think. I'm pregnant with our first and I'm 7-8 weeks. I see the doc on Tuesday to find out exactly. Good luck and don't worry about what others think its your life and your choice.
  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    I've had people say 'how did it happen' like wtf. Did you not go to health class?! It happened from my boyfriend of a year and I having sex!!!!
  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    Whatever happened to 'congratulations'
  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    Whatever happened to 'congratulations'
  • joyfulmama_my4thjoyfulmama_my4th
    I'm pregnant with my fourth and the reactions I have gotten are "again?", "one more and you'll have your own basketball team", "there's ways to prevent that you know" (my father-in-law), or "in this economy?". So, you're definitely not alone. Only one person I told even got excited and said congratulations! Everyone knew from the beginning that we wanted four, so nobody should be shocked. But there's always gonna be those who just feel that we need to hear their little two cents. Well, we are happy and you sound happy too! That's really what matters! By the way, congratulations! :)
  • ProudmommaProudmomma
    Some people just forget how big of a blessing to have kids is and the amazing feeling you get knowing you are their world. Ignore the people they may be jealous or just not kid people. Now if you had 19 kids I would pray you would stop lol but 3 is not many. I'm on my 2nd and am already talking my bf into a 3rd but a boy next time lol
  • bummy87bummy87
    ppl say it to me all the time I'm like yep, I tjink ppl just donno what 2 say sometimes, this is my 3rd no more 4 me but I wont be getting any surgery at 23 to be sure of it
  • awaamommyawaamommy
    Yes ladies I get the same think from my in laws yall 19 in counting. But we don't ask you for anything so don't worry about us. This is my fourth child. So I get a lot of looks cause my kids are 5 3 2. But I just look and keep it moving.
  • bigmamakbigmamak
    I get the same reaction. I am pregnant with my 4th. My other 3 are 3,4, and 6. This is a whoopsababy. We already gave away everything. But we won't love this baby any less. I wanna slap ppl sometimes. Family and friends are the worst! Especially my husbands family.
  • vegas_galvegas_gal
    Oh my! Thanx ladies for the support. If just got angry for a sec. Congrats to all of you as well! Im so excited...but sometimes people need to keep things to themselves...
  • ProudmommaProudmomma
    Lol I get comments like wow you sure know how to space them! Well lets see my daughter is 11 and I'm pregnant now. I was 16 with my first. I sure hope I wouldn't have had another right after her. It seems like all of you ladies spaced your kids perfectly. What's really bad is these racist people that say the baby is better not born then to be mixed!
  • jazzydDjazzydD
    @Proudmomma I agree!!! my grandma told my mom to abort me when she got pregnant cause according to my grandma I would never find a place in this world being a "mixed negro mutt" as she pit it lol im 21 and think I have found quite a good place
  • Mrs4cMrs4c
    Someone's mad at you because of a third kid? Even if you have like 8 they should never tell you to get your tubes tied.
  • snowflakesnowflake
    I have this same problem sooo much.its all i hear,"don't u know whats causing that","i wouldn't have no more ","you need to get fixed or let ur husband get fixed ".its gotten so bad i dred telling people the news cuz i don't wanna hear their crap.im pregnant with my 5th.i already have 4 girls plus i adopted my stepson and step daughter so yeh all together that's 7 but im a stay at home mom and i don't get the first ounce of help from anyone. Just ignore them if they keep on saying rude things.that's what i do.my mother in law was the worse.she even told me maybe id get lucky and when i had an ultrasound they wouldn't find a baby.
  • Kcantu2Kcantu2
    I am having my second. I have my girl. This is my boy. Yes thet are back to back babies. But geez, all I hear are the same things. I (hopefully) wont be having more... But even if I did I woukd be the one raising them. Not the ppl making comments. I mean, they wouldnt like me saying those things to them!
  • vegas_galvegas_gal
    @snowflake
    Your mother-in-law is a total witch!
    All you ladies are right. Who cares what Ppl say. Lol
  • VictoriaBVictoriaB
    @natashalynn lol! I got that from my grandpa! I told him, "I don't think I need to explain how babies are made." My husbands old boss said, "What? I thought you were fixed!" No, he just doesn't want to have kids with every woman he's been with >.> that's what condoms are for.
  • vegas_galvegas_gal
    @victoriab
    Lol!
  • BeardreamsBeardreams
    Some of my relatives even went so far as to imply I should get an abortion and how everyone in our family had high hopes for me. Of everyone I had told I didnt expect that from family. Especially since they werent aware it was actually planned and tried for. First try but none the less.
  • jcmommyjcmommy
    People always ask me if I'm happy. Wtf? What do they expect me to say? I look young, but I'm happily married with a 4yr old and this child was planned. So they are pretty spaced out. Some people just don't think before they speak. I just try to let it roll in one ear and out the other. Hooray on finally getting that girl
  • awhaley28540awhaley28540
    I have the.same problem with my inlaws. Yeah we are young. But we take.care of our son. Dont ask for help at all. Hubby is a marine. We have our own place and married. I dont have to ask permission to have a.child. Nor should I feel bad or nervous bout me being pregnant. Its very irritating. I.CANT STAND MY INLAWS
  • babynum2andproudbabynum2andproud
    I think u should have as many kids u want who cares what anyone thinks. Everyone is different and has the choice of how many they want. I know i have always only wanted 2 one of each and thank goodness that's what im getting. My little boy will be here in july and my daughter will be 4. Congrats to u all may u be blessed with as many kid's as u wish
  • ProudmommaProudmomma
    @jazzydD that's so wrong! When I was pregnant with my first this elderly couple saw me and the father and said almost the same thing. This baby its not as bad since I now live in a more diverse city but we still get stared at a lot so we start rubbing my tummy to piss people off lol. I hate racist people!
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