we are tryin for a baby but i need help

mammaof3

My boyfriend and I are trying to have our first together. But I have 3 other kids. Well we have been trying since the first of March. And now all the sudden he is saying maybe we souls wait. I don't get it. We both want it really bad. And he keeps telling me he wants a baby but no he wants to wait. Help please.

itsaGIRL

Maybe he's scared.3 is a lot add one more its a bunch!! Talk to him ask him see what he thinks n feels

mammaof3

I did and he says he wants a baby and the numbers don't bother him. He just wants a winter baby. And he says its up to me if we keep trying or not. I think we should both want it together or not at all. And we have been trying. For a while now. I could be pregnant and not no. So him backing out is worrying me.

tryforbaby2

Omg my husband did the same thing to me! He told me to get mirena(iud) taken out valentines day and we started trying then 2 weeks later he's like uh I don't want another one right now.... I didn't talk to him for 2 days...I didn't know what to say to him. I was so hurt, cause I told him from the beginning if he isn't ready to tell me. He told he only said yes to make me happy...uhh I hate when guys do that! Anyways long story short we have worked it all out and he was just stressed from school and stuff but yea I think they just get scared sometimes...like there the ones who have to change there whole body right? Lol

mammaof3

Ya. We talked it out and he is just worried to. But we worked it out and we are still trying. Thank you for all ur saport.