help...ive lost the little control i had

MzGarcia_july_baby

not like ive ever had much control in my relationship in the first place but today i lost the little say i once had. im hours away from home, alone...pregnant and with my 3 yr old daughter trying to make this relationship work. i have no one to talk to about my stresses and frustrations...only this. i have tried so hard to make things work with my man but it seems like im getting no where. ive made so many sacrafices to be with him and i get nothing in return. i put up with his family constant rude comments toward me, his selfishness is unbarable but some how i manage to ignore it because i love him. instead of listening to what i have to say he yells at me and immidiatly turns my concerns into arrguments....always. i can never have a thing to say apparently.
he makes it seem like im holding him back from his party life....i want this family to work...i cant to it with a man that is drunk everytime hes got a day off. i have told him that if this isnt the life he wants hes not being pressured to be with me....im just not that interested in the party scene anymore im a mother of soon to be 2 children.
he walked out the door a few hours ago without telling me where he was going nor what time hed be back....i guess he has much more important thing to tend to then his pregnant partner. i think things are only going toget worse.....what do i do?....did i even make any sence or did i ramble on?

jcmommy

Is the 3yr old his? (sorry if that sounded rude) but if he hasnt stepped up for her and you have another one on the way and you're not happy then maybe its time you should be moving on. why be with someone that is going to make you miserable for the rest of your life? I hope you figure it out. good luck.

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