With my previous marriage and ny 1st 3 kids it was my Exhusband, my parents, his mom and whoever else passed by my room and wanted to join in on the spectacle.
This is my fiances first and he just wants it to be us two through the labor and until after an hour after birth.
This new to me... I'm use to having EVERYBODY in the delivery room. But I'm glad my honey is taking a stand and wants to be a lil selfish with me and the baby. The bonding time will be nice.
At my hospital, they only let the dad, and two other people in the room at once. Sooo im gonna have my boyfriend, my mom and his mom. Me and her are really close(:
I am a highly private person, so I have decided to only have my soon-to-be husband in the room. It looks like I am also going to have specifically request no one else but the doctors and nurses on staff can be in the room, because his SIL bullied her way into his sister's delivery room using the fact she was an RN. (Sister and SIL do not like each other; SIL wanted attention. Craziness!)
Honestly I'll prolly just have my hubby in there. My sister said if he faints our can't handle it she will be with me. Lol. We are actually planning on not telling anyone but my sis and some friends who will be taking care of our dogs. And MAYBE his sis too. Depends on if she can keep her mouth shut to her mom who has made my whole pregnancy hell.
@ HOMEBIRTHADVOCATE; the reason is because people are uploading the videos to the internet where anyone can have access to them. The hospitals don't agree with that so they won't let anyone video tape it.
My fiancee, my mom(If she's not getting on my nerves like always) an his Mom Oh and My BFF if they allow for ppl. She's a very nice lady, an I think I can deal with her more the my own mom. I knw its mean, But I only speak the truth!!
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This is my fiances first and he just wants it to be us two through the labor and until after an hour after birth.
This new to me... I'm use to having EVERYBODY in the delivery room. But I'm glad my honey is taking a stand and wants to be a lil selfish with me and the baby. The bonding time will be nice.