open letter to the ladies

bigpoppa

Hello all. My wife and I are both just over 40, and after a very long time many tears we are finally 6 weeks preg. I've been reading the comments on the boards here for a week and I've learned soooooooooooo much. I feel like I've peered into the secret world of what a woman thinks. As a husband more often than not I have no clue what music wife Xie talking about to the point she may as well be speaking French..... doesn't mean I don't try to understand..... but we men really don't get it most of the time...... this site is invaluable....

katiemcmillan12

Im glad uv enjed thepositives that come from on hete.my husband has also learnt alot from here and its really helped him feel involved in my pregnancy :-)

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adri805

Sees congrats!!!! I wish u ur wife n unborn child the best. Now if more dads could take that hint n quit being so dang clueless n try to understand n get more info..like my unborn child's dad.

Jess510

serenitysmommy

Congrats

serenitysmommy

Congrats

casnleslie

I would like to begin with congrats and well wishes to your family. I can already tell you are going to be amazing support for your wife. I know we can be so difficult to understand that we barely do. I commend you for taking the time to "educate" yourself...

librababii

Congrats & Good luck

Mommysierra

First of all congratulations to yall I agree 100% I am a first time mom and this is helping tremendously

Prayin_4_twins

Congrats to you and your wife! Good luck. I am 26 and hubby is 23 and we have been ttc for over 17 months, very emotional rollercoaster for sure! I applaud you and your wife for hanging in and staying so positive!

kayleigh27

Congrats! Wishin u and your wife the best of luck!

bigpoppa

Thanks ladies....

bigpoppa

aand contracts to you all

Máthair

Oh no we have been invaded!!

just kidding, it is very nice of you to join so you can understand what your love is going through. And congratulations!!

Kelsky77

keylanieq

Congrat for such a big blessing :">

ladicapo

i wish my bd would try to get on this site and learn some stuff..hes always complaining about me bein on it! ...smh BTW good luck and congradulations on your pregnancy!!!! God Bless you guys!!

FirstTimeDaddy

dude thats exactly how I feel. iv been on this forum for about 8 weeks. I think. well since we found out we were having a baby. iv learned so much. I havent posted a discussion. but thats cuz I get all the answers I need from reading all of their discussions. (: combats on ur baby btw

bigpoppa

Firsttimedad bro I been getting all my info from them.. I've seem a few of your posts..... glad to see another guy doing the right thing

Landynplus1momma

I wish my hubby would try to understand must be nice to be 100% supported! Stay that way its the best thing u could ever do for ur wife soooo jealous lol

ckazfirst

@bigpoppa. My soon to be hubster is on here too. Your welcome and thanks

bigpoppa

Landyn. I'm sure he is. Mine sometimes doesn't think I try..... most women don't recognize our attempts ..

bigpoppa

ccontracts you u too

Landynplus1momma

Idk sometimes I feel like he could care less and just would rather sleep. Its nice to have a guys perspective bc he never really tells me whats wrong other than hes fine..I mean don't get me wrong he's a good guy and loves us I just feel pushed to the side were only 22 expecting our 2nd thhey will be 23 months apart.. and with age comes wisdom and understanding so I'm hoping he will soon I guess grow up and help more idk what I'm trying to say lol do u think he still cares or do u think he's feeling overwhelmed like this is to much?

bigpoppa

He is scared. He wants to make I happy and comfortable but doesn't know how. Men don't like to feel helpless.

bigpoppa

both of I are young and maybe could grow up some. Patience is key for both of u.

Landynplus1momma

Thanks for taking the time to respond good luck with ur wife and enjoy every minute of the pregnancy its so special