baby's last name.

crachellet7

So I'm not with the baby's dad anymore and kinda freaking out about what to do about the last name. A few days ago he told me if its a girl he want nothing to do with her cuz she'll be a little "b" and had threatened me about not having anything to do with his kid but always says I'm kidding ill always be here. And says he don't want to be punished with child support. Need help. Should I give baby his last name and hope he stays or just say screw it and give baby mine.

KatelynDoleMommyOf3

From experience I would say give the baby YOUR last name.

sweetsurprise

I say give your baby your last name. it doesn't sound like your bd has earned the right to have his last name carried on. And the last name has nothing to do with being able to get child support.

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Karla_with_a_K

Give baby your last name. Screw him!

crachellet7

Alright thanks ladies. I'm definitely giving baby mine.

rhondala71

Good decision!

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Ur last name... ef him...jerk...

dobiemomma

from my personal experience i'd give the baby your last name. it's easier to change it to his if you need to than wanting to change it back. and @sweetsurprise is right, last name has NOTHING to do with child support

Mythica

Your last name, and make sure he signs the birth certificate. Don't let that jerk wiggle out of child support!!! The only reason I'm NOT putting my bd on the birth certificate is cuz I want my child to have nothing to do with him. He's a felon, an alcoholic, a pill addict, a deadbeat, and a violent drunk. Idk if I'm gonna be able to keep him away, but a least when he dissappears in a few months she won't remember him.... it makes me sad, but I'm with someone right now who is more of a father to her while in the womb than her sperm doner ever has been and ever will be. I have given him chance after chance and he just isn't trying. All he does is b!**h and moan.....

Sorry, didn't mean to vent. The point is: don't let him wiggle out of child support.

Duckyysgal

Yours and go for child support no matter

lilacsiamese77

Your last name! My mom gave me my absentee father's last name and we both always regretted it. I always wished I shared a last name with her and her family and when she got remarried (when I was 2) I couldn't be adopted by my stepdad with his permission, so my last name remained different than the whole rest of my family.

Your last name for sure!!!!

FirstTimeDaddy

give the baby ur last name. n w a paternity test the courts will still place child support on him

ericazekendan

my mom gave me and my little sister our dads last name. Which was different than her last name. I hate it now. Id much rather have my moms because my dad doesn't deserve for us to have his last name. He was never there when we were growing up, he NEVER paid child support, he always said he'd do stuff for us and never went through with it, he missed a bunch of our birthdays. And so on and so on. So I would have liked to have my moms last name do to the fact that my dad was a jerk most of the 17 and 15 years me and my little sister have been alive.