Its so hard

crazy23crazy23
edited March 2011 in First time moms
Its so hard for me to get along with my boyfriend. Just cause he doesn't have to birth the baby he seems to think he doesn't really have to change. Just cause I am not extremely big yet doesn't mean I am not pregnant. Do I have to be giving birth for him to comprehend that we are having a baby. And that we need to save money, start looking for home and start thing about the nursery. I am trying to win a losing battle!!

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  • proudcastromamaproudcastromama
    When I was pregnant with my 1st child that's how it was in between and my now husban. As women we think of the future we move in to mommy mode right away and the guys the think of it as well when the time comes ill be ready but relax because stressing is no good for baby it can be frustrating that our bodys are working day.and night that's why we are tired but.we are intiteld to pampering ....hopefully he will realize men mature at a lower rate than us
  • 2Blessings2Blessings
    ^^^^ I agree ^^^^^^
  • crazy23crazy23
    Thanks that helped me cant. I cant sleep and i am starting to feel bad for riding his ass. I try so hard not to, then he ends up doing or saying something that shows such selfishness. It seems like he doesn't listen. That my head feels like it could blow up. I am don't want to hurt me and the baby with my crazy stress. I need to learn how to release it better.
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