I can't help the way I feel..help...

Expectin_myy2nd

But I feel so insecure not because my bd has done anything I just feel like hes not attracted to me anymore.. He says hes happy but he wants to be with his boys he stays out late and seems unattached.. I don't know what to do ???

kelseamarie

I feel the same way with my bd.
And idk what to do either....

Expectin_myy2nd

It sucks I just want to cry and cry I do everything to make myself feel better but everything goes unacknowledged

Expectin_myy2nd

I wish I could ignore him but we live together..

kelseamarie

I feel like he's like embarrassed of me. . But he's denies it when I bring it up /:

Expectin_myy2nd

I feel the same way.. He dsnt hold my hand,he dsnt text me on his breaks I thought I was being over dramatic but I hate crying myself to sleep

kelseamarie

wow your bd sounds just like mine. && I do too /:

mommajan

i think we all go through this sadly. i live with my babys dad n have since we got together last may and id find myself crying everytime id look at him cuz he wouldnt look at me:( now im39 weeks n we rarely ever have sex cuz he's "scared to hit the baby" even tho ive explained many times he cant. men will never understand our feelings at all:(

ammasmama

My husband doesn't show how he feels either. With the first 2 he would put lotion on my belly every night, and want to feel the baby move. With this one he seems so distant, and its not just me, we had an arguement yesterday and I told him I need to tp at least try. He didn't get me anything for our anniversary, christmas, valentines day and completely forgot my birthday the first of this month. He said he'd make it up to me, but hasn't even tries to do that.

And as far as sex. He usually doesn't want it the last month cause he's afraid he'll hurt the baby. But I have 8 more weeks and he told me yesterday that he isn't attracted to me cause I've been having contractions, and he feels like he would be force f***ing the baby out. This isn't new to this pregnancy I have an irrritable uterus and start having contrctions at like 20 weeks. And its sad cause I want sex all the time! I just wish he would try to show that he loves me, if he wasn't such a good provider and daddy, I think I would have left by now, cause I already get left out!

ammasmama

Sorry about the spelling I usually check for errors, but hit the send button by accident.

Expectin_myy2nd

Yeaa I really wish we could trade places with the men to have them see what it feels like.. Im just sad and I dnt know why hes acting this way
I just dnt want to be stressssed out because of him its unfair to the baby