Really annoyed and just need to vent :( (super long sorry)

czastrongczastrong
edited March 2011 in Pregnant
So I am 31 weeks pregnant and I am not sure if it is just my hormones going crazy or if I have a real reason to be upset. So me and my husband moved in with two other roommates to save money to buy a house. At first everything was great we had no issues, then 3 months pass and one of our roommates who is my aunt allows her boyfriend to move in with out even asking any of us if its ok. So finally we just all agree for him to move in because if he didn't she wouldn't pay her rent cause she decided to quit her job. Then my other roommate decides that her boyfriend can live with us 2 or 3 weeks out of the month and eat our food and use or water. We have a small 3 bedroom duplex that only has one bathroom and a small a** kitchen. My aunts boyfriend is a pig who likes to just walk in my room with out asking and talk to me well he lifts up his shirt and scratches his nasty stomach. And the other roommates boyfriend likes to walk around the house in his rob and most of the time his boxers. I am just getting so annoyed of living with these people and I don't know what to do. I cant even be home without being angry or stressed. Me and husband cant even buy a couple groceries at once because our roommates hog the whole fridge and eat all of our food. We want to move out so bad, but I think it might be hard to find someone to take over our lease. I don't know what to do, if you have any advise please let me know.
Sorry its so long just really needed to vent :(

Comments

  • carolyntxcarolyntx
    ya roomates are never a good idea- see if the boyfriend will take yalls lease and get out hun!
  • 2ndbby_ondaway2ndbby_ondaway
    I agree. Its harder to move in with family. I let my brother and his bm move in with us and it was horrable. They never cleanedand when u passed by their room it smelled awful. I only let tem move in to help them. We would have meetings to see if the issues can be solved. Have u tried that? I mean i did but it only worked for a lil bit then it wnt back to the way it was. Try not to stress.
  • salsabiasalsabia
    Buy a small fridge for your bedroom.
  • czastrongczastrong
    We have tried small meetings in the past and things change for about a week then go back to the way they were before. We do have a small fridge in our room but it doesn't hold a whole lot we are considering getting a second one to see if it will help. That is kind of what we are hoping will happen the boyfriend take over our lease so we can leave. I am trying really hard to not stress, its just hard cause I feel like they have no respect for me and my husband. We try so hard to respect them and they just don't seem to care. Its even hard and more annoying that one of them is my aunt, you are right 2ndbby_ondaway it is always harder to live with family.
  • artistmammaartistmamma
    I am SO sorry you're going through this right now. Your best bet seems to be to get the boyfriend to take over your lease, & then get out quick! You were trying to do something good to save money & it backfired on you. How frustrating! :(
    I hope this situation ends quickly & you're in a better, happier place real soon. Best of luck, hun! :)
  • czastrongczastrong
    Thanks everyone! I am feeling a little less stressed now, my husband and I are going to find another place to live and talk to the boyfriend about the lease. I just don't need to stressed out and worried right now. Thanks for listening really need people to talk to :)
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