second guessing bd....

Soon_2Be_Storked

I care about him a lot but he is so clingy and I can't stand it....I'm so independent.
I would have nothing without his financial support...
I have gone through he** explaining to my family how much I care to move out, and now I feel like I'm second guessing.
I don't know what to do.
I feel like if I end up with a mc I would leave him, but I'd still be left with nothing...I just don't know!

Máthair

It could just be hormones acting up, but you have to really think about this one and what it means. Don't stay with him just for financial reasons.

Another question to ask yourself (and I know I'm going to stir up alot of issues but it needs to be said) is how much is a baby going to cut into your indepence?

Why not talk to your bd and explain that you need some more space and he doesn't need to be on you every second. Maybe he is just trying to support you emotionaly and thinks that what he is doing is a good job.

m2bhope

If u love him stay with him and talk to him. If you dont then leave. You can be a single mom and survive you don't need to be financially dependant on someone. Just remember your hormones are.out of whack and to think things through.

Soon_2Be_Storked

He just tries to do too much. I have been so nice about it and told him multiple times...Nothing has changed. We broke up right before I found out i was pregnant and he walked around so depresseed and looking like his world was going to end. Ugh I just don't know.

clope18

So many woman have been through so much BS & dated so many jerks that they would kill for a guy who would do a lot for them. Think about it. Good luck

Soon_2Be_Storked

I have been the same way. I am thankful, but its just too much. I just don't know how to stay sane.