pregnant and im paranoid he's cheating

ambieluv

I know so much about guys and how they need their wifey all tucked away while they have a mistress on the side. I am so paranoid my guy is either doing this or planning to do it once he thinks he's got me. He is absolutely amazing and I'm crazy about him I think I'm going to ruin our closeness because I'm always letting him have it. He jumps through all my hoops and hasn't ever done anything suspicious and still I can't relax. I already have a five year old from a past relationship.. I'm 24 now and due in September. Im so paranoid I even contemplate abortion .. I think its just my pregnancy hormones but I need to stop because its tearing us apart and were a great couple.

MsKrystal

Sweetheart, if he hasn't given you a reason to suspect that he's cheating, do NOT jump on him. It WILL push him away, pregnant or not. These hormones are a beeotch to deal with, but you have to keep things in perspective. He's innocent until proven guilty.

09_02_11

I have the same problem girl. My & my bf have beentogther for 4 years & Im scared that he will cheat. That is just us being insecure. U should try talking to him about your problem. It was tearing us apart also till I talked to him n told him how I feel. We argued at first but we ended up straigtening things out. U need comunication or u might end up seperating. Guys hate when we acuse them

09_02_11

Of something they havent done. Ttrust me what u need is communication or ur just gona push him away. Hope this helps

katlilly

One piece of advice from past experience I think the Guy who is over protective and accuses you of being untrustworthy is the Guy you need to get rid of. If he's a good Guy like you say hunny bee, then Id say you got nothing to worry about!! Xoxo

MrsLaMaster

I would talk to him about how u feel,, an just explain that ur hormons are all nuts an u dont want to mess up ur relationship,,, if he is a good man and is not cheating then he will sit an talk about it with out getting angry

ambieluv

We talk about it and he is very good about it just waiting for me to stop busting his balls as he puts it. I know he used to like strip clubs before me and I just can't accept that he is giving up his old ways because he wants to settle down and start a family. We said all this before I found out I was pregnant. Also I think he got me pregnant on purpose .. he was tracking my cycle and knew when I was most fertile. He's a great catch I just can't believe I'm his choice.

rootzmama

Ive never thought my bf would cheat bur since I got pregnant a part of me is having these wild thoughts that for some reason he wont want me. But I knoe its just hormones totally because he is just as excited and committed as I am. And I think of it like this, if he would cheat on me in my most vulnerable point in life then I dont wanna be with that kinda scumbag anyways. and that makes me feel confident which is something thay love about us girls ps I looove my baby daddy