Cheating BF gave me Chlamydia (Vent)

MommyAgain

UGH... my boyfriend had cheated years ago... and when we were just talking about getting back together again he was still FKing around.... its been great for just about 2 years now and today i get a call from my dr that i have the clap.... im pissed. i was clean my last PAP and he has never been tested for shit. Ive never been with anyone else besides him in 7 years.... and when i told him a littlee while ago he had the nerve so say "what if i dont have it?" what an ass.... im crying cuz he did this to me... i know its an easy cure but getting his ass to the dr is another story... i told him... till i see that you have a clean bill of health there will be no sex... (we are very active together) he said he will try to go this week... he then proceeded to ask how he could have gptten it (he still denies ever cheating) i went off on him naming the chicks he thinks i dont know about.. he just stayed quiet... UGH im pissed...and hurt.. and want to hurt him so bad...

finallypregnant2

So sorry girl what a Jack a$$

MommyAgain

@finallypregnant2 Thanks. i agree. i told him because of his stupidity our baby is at risk.... im 9w3days

grnfish73

I would consider my options. Apparently his behavior will not change. You need to decide to stay in this type of relationship or get on with your life with out him. What did the doc say about the STD affecting the baby?

MommyAgain

They are non chalant about it. its just a wek long regimin of antibiotics and it should be gone. as long as HE gets clean too it should be business as usual....

@grnfish73 He has been a good boy for just about 2 years now. (yes i snoop and listen to voicemails to make sure....and he has no clue) i had my last pap about 28 months ago and i was clean then.... so it happened after... i can even tell you who he got it from... i remember when i found out about her.. .....i even told him today that it was probably her...

Landynplus1momma

Oh no no hun I wasn't saying u did or even would just kinda.the same situation unfortunately in there case it wasn't so easy and they didn't find it til after he was born BC they had no idea I was just idk trying to make it aware just to b safe in case was all just b careful BC u seem like ur kids r ur life so I was just giving heads up was all! @mommyagain

graciensmommy

My friend had this happen to her too sorry your dealing with it. If u stay u need to make him wear condoms from now on while your pregnant he can't be trusted and you can't risk your baby.

grnfish73

Well I can tell you is think about what is best for you and your children. Good Luck Hun!!!

MommyAgain

@landynplus1momma i dont have herpes though. from what ive been reading Chlamydia is common and easily treated. they tested for everything else.. and i was fine... thank you for your concern though....

@graciensmommy i told him exactly that.... wrap it up from now on... and still sticking to no sex till after hes clean period.

MommyAgain

@grnfish73 Thanks.

HavingNumber4

I'm n the same situation now exactly the same disease same wks n he says the same thing n I got tested passed my pap before n now its this baby due oct. 31 hopefully doctors will give me gud news on the. 5th cuz I'm n pain

preggointx

Sorry that happened to u

MommyAgain

@giovanni Are you showing symptoms? I have none..... neither does he. i would have never known if they didnt test me. Mine is due 10/21

BkE913

Screw condoms, the safest method is obviously staying far, far away from the SOB!

HavingNumber4

@mommyagain no symptoms for him nor me n gurl he had the nerve to try n act like that been fine cuz its not life threatening n I got the medicine the point was u gave me n our child a disease n if I wasn't pregnant then I wouldn't have never known that's the point omg I need to calm down

HavingNumber4

But I'm due 10/31 on Halloween but I know ill deliver before then

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briffyg89

Girl he will have to go to da doctor immediately... I feel yo pain why can't men ever be fucking real bout shit so sick of they bull****

Mommie_McAtee

I think id be in jail for assault with a deadly weapon