to who ever had a m/c

vanessa90

I have a question for you guys....I had one last April got prego a month an a half later.....is it jus me but.do Yu hate when ppl ask you how many kids you have??I jus dnt know how to answer that question therefore I had being askd that ?..bcus I don't.wanna say 1 an I also don't wanna tell everyone about my m/c it jus dnt bring any happy memories also don't want to forget about my baby that could of.been but didn't make it....an then wen u do tell ppl u had a m/c they say ooh like get over it they think its no big deal but I think it is especially if u never had one an u dnt know what I had to go trew its a very hard thing to deal with why do ppl think.its not jus cus it happens to lots of us.....

blessed1508

good question. I just say one they don't have to know about my angel baby but I know in my heart that's all that matters to me

vanessa90

That's true but I don't wanna forget about my baby who's in heaven cus I always wonder who they could of been:(

nameless

I say 1.. but now that im more comfortable talking about my mc..even though it hurts sometimes ..if they ask how many times ive been pregnant i will say 3. But if they ask how many kids do i have..just 1.
I cant count this one till it comes. September 22:)

mommy2audrey

I always go by the HAVE ... you might have have more but they are asking how many are with you...

veteranswife

To me the question how many pregnacys and than how many children they give you a weird look without even knowing that it was a m/c. I go by how many are alive and with me but that doesn't mean I forget about the other babies.