going it alone...

mamamagz

I have been alone my whole pregnancy. It has been hard, very very hard at some points. I have a great support system, but not having a significant other to share the special moments with has been really difficult. How many others out there are going it alone so to speak?

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mamamagz

No I don't mind you asking, though it is something that when I tell most people they look at me like I am crazy for keeping the baby. I was assulted sexually in july, it was a stranger, and I have no way to even find him and tell him he fathered a child. At the time I was seeing a really great guy who tried to be there and support me, but because of all of the emotional things I was dealing with I pushed him away, and I wish I could take it all back, but he is now seeing someone else, and so there is little to no chance of us getting back together. He was a very very good man. He even offered to be daddy to my baby, even though there was no chance that she was his.

divamommy

I have a lot of support surrounding me but Im going thru this alone also. I got pregnant from a one time thing with an ex high school friend and in the beginning I figured because I was already single, it wouldnt bother me doing this alone but it does hurt many times now. My ex bf is even saying tht he will always b here for us but its not the same.

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I have a 3yr old son with my ex and while he is a great father to our son he wants nothing to do with this baby. I have accepted it, but mostly i feelbad for this child. I have support from his mom and my parents but i have no one to go to the doctors and stuff with me. And i have to hide my happiness.