Advice?...plz

MyMonkeyFamily

I finally told my bf im pregnant on sunday...i got the reaction I expected..not too happy..anyways since tht day we talk and I see him everyday but he still wont say anything about it.. Hes soo sweet to me tho yday he took me and our daughter to dinner he spent the night he wont stop being affectionate he was attacking me with kisses and hugs...but I try to bring it up and he wont talk bout it.. Whts going on??

mommyto1soontob2

Shock from the looks of it. Guys can't handle stress or change. I would give him some time to take it all in. He will talk when Hes ready. Atleast he's nice and not the type to leave u.

jalem

he's just not used to it yet... take him to the dr with you and show him the heart beat it'll make it more real for him..

MyMonkeyFamily

Yea u girls are probably right and Ima try making an apt for dr when he can make it..he has 2 jobs so its hard to get him to my dr apt..i hope he comes around soon..

may1mommatobe

I would give him time like the rest of the ladies said and yeah maybe try and take him to the dr with you

jalem

if he cant get to the dr with you tell doctor you want to video it on your phone and have the volume loud so that when you go home you can show it to him and be like..."look dear... i know you cant make it to the dr. appts so i brought it to you... thats your baby's heart beat... thats my soon to be fat tummy... thats the dr's hand... and now were done.." wasn't that fun????