Low sex drive

NewMom0811

Does anyone else have a low sex drive.... mines us to be so high now very very low i think about having sex but when the time comes I do not want to do it I hate it just seems so nasty now and kissing i fel like i wanna throw up everytime I think about it I be like ewww no I hate sex... my lil girl is making her dad mad ;-)

Gabrielalecoco

Same here I dont like or want sex, I'm glad the desire is gone because I want to stay abstenince after my daughter is born

Laurenmarie729I

Yes! I feel so bad! I do NOT want anything sexual no kissing no touching nothing it grosses me out! I will cuddle on the couch and give kisses hi and goodbye and goodnite, but that is it. I dont want him to touch me down there, it feels almost wrong! Ive never been like this I thought I would be a hornball my second trimester...now that im 23 weeks I guess not, I feel horrible for my hubby I physicallly cant do it tho ....do u think I will get my sex drive and normal feelings back after my pregnancy?? Im so nervous I wont and it will tear us apart

happy2bee33

I'm like that too my other pregnancys was not like that I was so horny but this one nope I don't want no sex at all and I'm 13w I wonder if I will fill different. Later in the pregnancy??

firstmama

I was so lookin forward to prego sex!!!!! Everyone raved bout it and now that I'm preggers its like what? You want to put tht where? Hahahaha u funny boy. I feel bad cuz I kno he sufferin but it just hurts. Like does anyone else feel like a virgin or close enuff again? I don't even want to do the " u kno lollipop " cuz its just gonna get him started on tryn poke me. Sorry if tmi

Gabrielalecoco

I totally understand ya'll situation my sex drive is gone; just tell your husband how you feel maybe he'll understand....

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newmom2be23

I hate it too, painful for me as well and i have never been in the mood since i got preggo. Drives my bf crazy and its hard for me cuz he gets mad at me and doesnt care enough to understand. I hope the sexdrive comes back aftwrwards

FirstTimeDaddy

first trimester my gf gave me sexy time like once a week. I think mostly to shut me up. second trimester is a whole different story. (: things may change for u

FirstTimeDaddy

but kissing is out. I haven't kissed her in forever ):

mommy_of_adriana

Ya I prefer my bf to stay away from me right now lol poor guy

IsItFallYet

Glad I'm not the only one. Mostly I read about preggos wanting it constantly. About 3 months now, and think we've only had sex 3 times. Use to love sex, but now- not so much. He whines about it and makes snappy little comments and I just roll my eyes or stare at him with a "are you sure you wanna go there with me being moody, buddy? "
And due to a sexual assualt a year and a half ago, I can't even force myself into just giving in to make him happy/ shut him up without bad vibes, a breakdown, crying, and refusal to be touched or held.

I explained all this time him and he gave a reluctant "I understand". But still whines. I say "well I'm growing a human! I'm uncomfortable, moody, pulse feels faster and harder, I get sick, I'm exhausted, bloated constantly, stressed, have body aches, and now have to listen to you complain about no sex? I'm giving you a kid! Sex is how this happend! "