advice

natandfer1993

Okay so I don't live with my bd, but as soon as I found out I was prego we decided to move in together. The only thing is since I found out, he goes out every night. I mean every night, until like 2 am, sometimes later. Also, his friends always just show up at his place, at all different times of day. I told him thqt he needs to tell them to stop before I move over there. But he hasn't. I also said before I move there his partying habits need to calm down, just bc I don't wanna be home alone every night, or woken up when he gets home. Its only causing tension
Am I being irrational or not? Just need other ppls opinion. I don't mind if he still goes out, maybe jusy different hours and not as much I mean he does have q family he needs to be therw for as well

momof5

I would have to agree with you. Time to grow up and start acting like a responsible boyfriend and soon to be father. I would not be able to handle my husband going out everynight or his friends just coming over all the time. Everyonce in a while isn't bad but not every night. Sit down with him and tell him what is bothering you. Maybe you guys could come to an agreement abt spending time out. Good luck to ya

vette_devil

I agree with @momof5 . I also say don't move there until you guys get it figured out & come to a solid agreement; that would be a disater for all 3 of you. Good luck!

natandfer1993

Thanks ill talk to him tonight. After that I say it should be him making the move to change. And if he can't settle down its his loss in the end, it bugs me lots when my friends tell me after I move in he will stop, like excuse me moving in with someone doesn't fix most problems. It usually makes it worse
Whatever, I'm just focusing on me and my lil bean