Venting......
My husband is messy or deaf. He twisted my words to his mother. And instead of telling her the truth, which will make him look like a liar, he lets her think that I dont like her or dont want to talk to her.
She believes everthing that comes out his mouth and I believe if he started the mess he should fix it. His mother knew about this baby since the day I took the home test. The only thing that she did was ask him what he was going to do? What kind of mess is that. I am almost 9 months and this lady hasnt spoken not one word to me. Not hello, congratulations, nothing. But what im supposed to swallow my pride when the baby comes and kiss her butt? oh, she can treat me any kind of way and I would have to sit in her presence. I dont think so. And just be some happy fam and sweep things under the rug? If she dont want to deal with me she dont have to deal with my son. Obvious she doesnt care anyway. I told him he let this situation go on too long. Now she is an angry old biddy.
She believes everthing that comes out his mouth and I believe if he started the mess he should fix it. His mother knew about this baby since the day I took the home test. The only thing that she did was ask him what he was going to do? What kind of mess is that. I am almost 9 months and this lady hasnt spoken not one word to me. Not hello, congratulations, nothing. But what im supposed to swallow my pride when the baby comes and kiss her butt? oh, she can treat me any kind of way and I would have to sit in her presence. I dont think so. And just be some happy fam and sweep things under the rug? If she dont want to deal with me she dont have to deal with my son. Obvious she doesnt care anyway. I told him he let this situation go on too long. Now she is an angry old biddy.
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We accepted it and decided to not talk to her because she was just stressing us both. Aggravating too.
My mom suggested I just accept it cause there's a baby on the way. I said "well she should acknowledge that. We have a baby coming- she doesnt. If she doesn't want to play nice, and is rude to us, we'll then I don't want her negativity and rudeness and baseless assumptions around my kid. It's her problem. "
my thought: I'm going to have my own child, my own family, and won't let myself be pushed around and kiss up to someone rude. If somebody is disrespectful to my family, then they don't need to be involved.
A week or so later, the grandma apologized to him and brought us a few groceries as a peace offering.