I NEED 2 GET A BABY NOW!

edited March 2011 in Trying to conceive
ME & MY MAN TRY EVERYDAY & NIGHT AND NOTHING, IDEAS PLEASE!

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  • Stop trying. Frustration interferes with ovulation. How long have u been trying? Are u charting?
  • You are trying to hard we were trying so hard and when we stopped trying I got pregnant do just relax
  • Lay off the side of the bed after sex kinda like a hand stand
  • Sucks! We r ttc too and no luck so far and doing everything we r suppose to b doing. Waiting is hard... but so worth it at the end. good luck to u. Sry i dont have any ideas... sex is about it. Lol.
  • Have you tried the app WomanLog? I started using it to keep track of when I was ovulating since I definitely didn't have the energy to have sex all the time. It worked! Good luck!
  • It depends on what's wrong with you first. Metformin is for people with pcos. Clomid stimulates you pituitary to ovulate. Femara stimulates your ovarys to ovulate. When they say weight loss they mean your bmi, if that's with in normal then no need to loose weight. As for the gnc vitamins it doesn't hurt to try. Hope it helps!
  • needamiracle is right! Hubby & I have been ttc for 18 months & are working w/ our fertility dr. I understand the frustration, but you may want to make sure your ovulating. Do u have regular periods? If not then I suggest going to the dr ( girlie dr or a fertility dr)
  • We tried for over 2 years b4 we conceived our 3rd child. I was on clomid, we had test after test. We stopped we decided to stop trying. I wad pregnant the month after :) relax n have fun is my advice
  • thanks @needamiracle :) i am working on getting my insurance so can't really go to a doctor but did appreciate that run down... thinking of going to gnc tm!!
  • Prenatals for you, one a day men for him, and flax seed oil for him as well, pre seed lube, don't use spit, aka no oral before, lay on your back with your hips elevated when done, and laugh a lot :) 2v weeks of doing this and you got it
  • We tried for 7months and the only change in the month I conceived was I quit stressing it and we finished (doggy style) from behind. Id read it helps the supreme get to where it needs to be better than other positions
  • @atem20 i agree to try and relax a bit more... as frustrating as it can be! i was stressing for a little while after i was ready to try after my MC but just had to relax. although i am trying and thinking about it... i have it in my mind that when it's meant to be, it will be. i would deff be taking prenatals to start. but sex morning noon and night isn't always a good thing... it can reduce his sperm and also weaken them i've heard. i guess everyone's different but have you tried ovulation tests to see when you should be having sex?
  • What is pre seed lube and where can you get it? @sunshinelove
  • I believe at wal greens, but it helps balance your ph levels so sperm can live threw the journey. Its great stuff. I tried for 8 months with no luck. gave up, retired this stuff and it was instant. Everyone is different. And I prayed like no tomorrow
  • Not sure if it works but I read on another forum that robitussin helps because it thins the mucus in your body (not just your sinuses). Tons of people posted and said that was the method they used. There was an article linked to the post but I'm on my phone right now and can't find it. Try googling it though.
  • I found the article I was talking about, again I have no idea if it works but tons of people on the maternity and style forum on facebook swore by it . . .
    http://www.parentingweekly.com/preconception/preconception_information/robitussin_and_cervical_mucus.htm
  • No stress. And have your man hold off a week by not doing anything for a weak. I know too much info but no sex, playing with himself, etc. That way his sperm count goes up. Also no type clothes for him or anything. Try it. I know two guys that did and it worked.
  • Tight clothes*
  • THANKS U R A BIG HELP
  • If you have an android phone(may be on iphone too) download the ovuview app.. it tracks ur period and tells you when you are ovulating.. start taking your temp EVERY morning at the same time. Buy the special thermonitor from like walmart or cvs. Don't use any other lube including spit. Use pre seed. It is very safe. You can use it even if you are wet. It helps the sperm swim through to the egg. Also after sex elevate your butt with a pillow or two for at least half an hour.

    My husband tried for a yr and my ex and I for 16 months.. my husband and I did the above for ONE month and we got preggo. Idk which did the trick, so I would do it all.

    Also don't have sex every day. Do it every other day. Some say the male needs time to make more sperm. Some say if the male has sex everyday or more its just semen and not sperm he's ejaculating.. though idk for sure.

    I hope this helps! *baby dust* I know it can be frustrating.. just try to enjoy sex.. also exercise may help. Even a walk around your neighborhood may help.
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