i love my fiance (bd) but his bm.....
This woman jus now is filing for child support because she probably found out he's havin another baby! Anyways, after months of a bad economy we finally movedout of town to live somewhere there's more jobs.. and he got a great job full time as a cook at a casino.. (really good for me cuz the food is delicious) but he jus got paperwork about them taking it out of his checks. They didn't even send anything to arrange for payments. Just BOOM! You are being ordered to pay almost 65% of ur paycheck to her! Its crazy. When I was a child my father never paid anything larger than $20 and now he has to pay the bulk of his money? We did plan on saving but now wit the looks of it we are gonna have to cut back with baby stuff even.. (34 weeks) omg. So much to do so little time(and money, now) but I love him and we are trying to make it work.
Anyone else have this problem with the bd's bm? Or low financial stability in their lives??
Anyone else have this problem with the bd's bm? Or low financial stability in their lives??
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I still hate how the courts takes the women side over the men.
One of my guy friends is only on child support because he didn't want to be with his BM but he told her he would take care of his child. He was buying the baby clothes, food, diapers, everything. He just wanted nothing to do with her. Everything was going good until she found out he got girlfriend. She got mad and sued for child support. She wouldn't let him take the baby home with him unless she was there and if he wanted the baby to spend the night, she would want to spend the night. That pissed her off too because he told her "unlike you I'm not a cheater" and "my girlfriend ain't having that."
Now he is counter suing her and from what his lawyers say, he has a good chance of getting FULL custody.
Yes she was very spiteful to do that. It also turns out that the money he was sending her wasn't all going on the baby either. All because he wanted nothing to do with her. She even tried to tell him the baby wasn't his when she found out about the counter suit. DNA test proved the baby is his and he is going for full custody. When he gets it he thought about getting child support on her but I told him to not be like her. But his lawyers said he would have to.
But It's sad about ur friend. Poor child involved
By law he has every right to see his daughter! That irks me!! Take her to court, hes taking care of her financially. No judge wld say no contact if hes a decent daddy!
Did the ex say is cp pays for her car? Not on his kid? My $ from ex pays my kids schooling, braces,groceries,clothing ect! I wld never budget my luxeries based on child support! That's y fathers try not to pay bc they assume bm are doing nails n taking shots with thier money.