Take a deep breath and think about what the next step is... get yourself together because you don't need him andyou need to be strong foryour baby.. get to these if you haven't already... do you have a place to stay... medical... go to wi for assistance with food also welfare... think about whether bd isgonna be in babys life and start the process of child support if that Is what u want...
Man, y'all are patient. I would have flipped on him. I'm sicilian, italian tho so maybe its jus my family background. Lol my man knows I wud go crazy.. but I really admire ur patience and all that. Sry to hear about ur bd. He doesn't deserve u. Even pregnant there are soo many resources. Check into some. Go on the internet for ur area. And dnt let him see how bad u feel. Show him the strong woman/new mommy that u are girl. Be strong, take care of urself for that baby and make sure he doesn't get u back..
To everyone esle I understand wat u all r sayn but I dnt knw if I can do dat. We have two otha kids which he is a good father to. N I askd him to leave he wnt he tld me if he cnt have me noone will, c its not dat easy to leave
@luvbeingamom please don't fall into mind games! I was with a cheater for 6 years and also 2 kids. Fir my own sanity I left! Best thing I ever did. Now engaged to a great man who doesn't cheat and treats me like a princess. I hope my son doesn't grow up cheating from seeing or hearing what that a hole put me through! Not good for you or your kids to stay regardless of how "good"of a dad he his he is showing his kids how to treat his wife is not good at all. Trust Me no matter Howe hard you try to hide from kids they know! Run girl run for you and you kids life. He can still be a good dad just not with you! You deserve better! And your kids see it or will see it the more time that you let it go on. Mind games suck! Cheating sucks! And remember cheating is NOT the cause of a bad relationship it is a SYMPTOM! I wish you and your children the best! Stay strong! You will never lose you kids if you leave! He is the one who loses! His family!
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