Serious Question.. PLEASE HELP

liljellybean

If a child is possibly consieved on march 13 isnt it too soon to tell?
Sonograms and pregnancy verifications all point to exactly 7 weeks today which puts a conception date of or around feb 24 valentines day... could doctors be off could i really have concieved this child on March 13? please help

momof22be

No they shouldn't be that far off.

laura536

Early u/s are the most accurate, so if it says 7 weeks, its most likely right.

veteranswife

They won't be that far of since its so early and you barley on the point of missing your period since you be barley pregnant. Any reasons you want it to ne conceived in march and not February?

oct28momma

You can not even see an embryo until you are at the very least 6 weeks. And there are measurements that give the most accurate due dates up to 12 weeks. All babies start out the same size and grow at pretty much the same rate until around 12 weeks.

liljellybean

@veteranswife my boyfriend and i broke up its looking like around the same time as conception i did something totally unlike myself and proceeded to be with somebody else on march 13 instead... which he found out about this morning so now instead of being super excited like he was he now wants to have nothing to do with me. I know he will make a great father if he will just believe me that its impossible for it not to be his. I know nobody wants to hear the drama on this site (i dont like it either) but i needed help and i thank you all very much.

@jenn_929 thank you for the date verifacation on v-day... im so stressed at the moment i dont even know my own name lol

veteranswife

If you are 7 weeks its for sure that it was conceived in february. You might hat some bleeding from your cervix and thought you got your period. If he doesn't come around there is always dna testing after birth to prove It to him.

liljellybean

@jenn_929 thank you so much for the advice it really means a lot

veteranswife

I have to agree with @jenn_929.

liljellybean

im just very scared that my child wont have a father

momof22be

He needs to see the weeks on an us just take one to him and let him see for himself guys r such a$$ holes uuuhhhh

liljellybean

@momof22be he came with me to the u/s but he believes that it can be off he just isnt listening

momof22be

What an idiot he might just be so hurt still though

momof22be

Tell the doctor to tell him there is no way that would be the case and when u deliver one month earlier than he's expecting u deserve an apology and he needs to love his kid

liljellybean

@momof22be it just sucks that i am going to have to be pregnant for the next 7.5 months by myself with no support.. it will be hard to let him into the childs life ive been supporting on my own all through the pregnancy personally at this moment (and it could be because im hormonal) i believe that if he doesnt step up now then he wont have anything to step up to when its born

momof22be

U need to have serious talks about everything and not let ur raging harmones get in the way take deep breaths he might say hurtful things but its just because he's hurt so deep breaths and if he's not there for you you will make it u will be OJ and that baby will always love u forever and always.

brodysmamma

I dont think it can be that far off because if you concieved on the 13th of this month then you would barely be able to see the baby, and a 7 week baby is so much different then a 3 week baby. and they are typically not that far off on u/s i would say you are 7 weeks then or further. ask your dr to count your hcg levels right now they will be super high good luck

liljellybean

my mother has no informed me of her beliefs that she doesnt think i will be able to financially care for this child and that i should take care of the problem now... i have tried to explain that single moms do it all the time and she was just lucky

momof22be

Than u will figure it out on ur own