i hate this!!

novbaby

So I recently found out I was pregnant. And naturally I stopped drinking and partying. I mean I still go out and hang out with friends just not like I used to. I really find myself resenting my boyfriend for going out and drinking all the time. I just don't think its fair that im at home sick and tired all the time while he does exactly what he used to. I mean were both still young (were 19) but still he needs to realize changes need to be made. Am I just being a bitch or is this a genuine complaint?

sunshinelove

Its a genuine complaint! I know how ya feel, I literally forced mine (how? Idk lol) to stop going out unless I go with him, he spent get drunk, so like no more than a few beers or captains and coke lol. made him quit chewing/smoking. I'll give him a free pass every now and again, but idk. I just put my foot down and he obeyed.

4senough

Both. Its natural to expect him to change his ways with you, but also unnecessary for him to do it. I have this problem too. I get a little jealous because dad gets to do everything and I don't!

Melissa

O man... I remember those days its hard and he should do it but if you tell him how you feel and he till does what he wants... man I'm sorry but I remember fighting with my kids dad and if I could do it all over I would have just saved myself the drama and left... he left me after all... so I would have just saved a lot of my time and heart and left earlier... every situation and relationship is different but it says a lot about someones and how they will be later on if he doesn't do some sacrificing then you have to walk away... :-(

elle_baby

This is a very common problem. You are not being a "b" this just really sucks how they can still do whatever they want. We can either make them man up and not go out which most of the time doesn't happen so we just have to deal I guess. Another reason as to why I am in this alone lol.

wallieheadbaby3

Oh sometimes I wish we could just switch with them for just a little bit so they can fully comprehend what we are going through. No your not being a b! You are only stating what you really feel and trust me I feel this way a lot! Keep your head up hun. It will get better.

novbaby

Thanks for the help ladies! Its just so frustrating sometimes! I wanna be with him he is very good to me just doesn't always understand where im coming from lol