My husband just does not care and im tired of dealing with it.
I dont even know how to feel anymore. THis has happened everytime I get pregnant. Im going to deliver my son in a week, and my husband is being a complete jerk. This all started because I asked him to make the girls breakfast because i am not feeling well. I ended up making them breakfast and I was so mad that I started slamming anything i could in the kitchen. Then i threw our daughters eczema medicine at him. Im thinking the least you can do is that. out of 7 days in the week, he act like he cant make the girls breakfast on one of his days off. He really believes that I should do everything. That he should be able to just sit on his ass and punch a time card. Well i have a job too, and I handle the finances, and I do mostly everything for our girls. I did not enter into this marriage to be the only one taking care of our family. This is supposed to be a partnership. I even tried to divide everything 50/50. But he still dont get it. All he is worried about is the next time we are going to have sex. Y would I want to give myself to a man that does not value the family he made. So I left him alone and came into the room, and he gets dressed and leaves. Taking the car that barely has enough gas in it for us to make it through the week. He knows we are broke, but he rather be selfish. I might as well be doing this on my own, since thats what it feels like. I dont plan on saying anything to him if he decides to come back. I dont even want him at the birth of our son. I dont feel like he's earned the privillage. But im supposed to name my son after him as well. I am so fed up, i dont know what to do with myself. I dont care where he goes. Maybe its best for me and my kids that he just leaves us alone.
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It's not going to get easier on you once the baby is here. Until u clearly make it known you are fed up( perhaps go to a relatives for the night) he's just going to blame it on pregnancy hormones. Maybe pack a suitcase for him and say leave for the weekend. Let him truly know u had enuff laziness.