6monthz n scared of givinq birth(first time)

edited April 2011 in Second Trimester
Really ready for my son kayden to be here but scared of givinq birth this is my first kid

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  • Epidural is a gift from God. Get some! I enjoyed labor. It's nothing like on TV. Even the reality shows are exaggerated. It really isn't that bad and It's the most memorable experience of ur life. Relax and enjoy this gift :)

    Actually it was the two weeks after that I'm dreading goin thru again. But the labor itself is a breeze (compared to how its portrayed)
  • And how about the contractions? I know its painful
  • Do what I did and try not to think about the giving birth part. Sometimes I think moms are overly informed which just frightens more than helps. trust me though it's not so bad! An epidural made my first birth pain free!
  • Oh and the contractions didn't bother me at all. In fact I got the epidural at the last chance I got because I didn't want to regret it!
  • The contractions feel like intense menstrual cramps. I actually found them more annoying than painful. I agree that we are too informed and get scared, but honestly, It's NOT that bad! And when u think back all u will remember is meeting the baby...not the pain. Think about it: if labor was as bad as ppl make it sound, NO ONE would have a sibling LOL! But for some reason, we keep having more :)
  • Thanks alot because I try not to think about it
  • Don't listen to other peoples horror stories as well i did I was terrified. I couldn't have wished for my labour to go any better. Hoping this second will be just as good lol good luck though dont worry about.it. take it as it comes
  • I agree with the rest of the ladies don't listen to other peoples bad stories. Epidural is the way to go I didn't feel a thing literally the reason I knew he was out was bc they put him on me. I actually stopped pushing to take a pic of my sons fathers face it was priceless!! And hilarious. My mid wife said she'd been delivering for 15 years and never seen a woman stop pushing to take a pic lol. But don't be scared thrust me when I tell u it'll be the best day of ur life ;-)
  • Lol.. was it a good pic? I had gas an air all the way almost falling off the bed haha
  • Oh yeah he had the dumbest look on his face jaw dropped eyes wide open lol...
  • Thanks Alot
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